everyone is moving forward in life, I'm still in the same place yet. It hurts.

[nopointofliving]

My life is really hopeless. Yes I'm trying to do something to improve it but it's of no use. I see everyone else has some hope in their life, they can fix it and move on, but I will never fix anything. Probably I don't want to fix it , I just want to pass through my own hell of suffering and leave.

 

[noxin]

I really feel your pain OP. All I can feel is that I'm stagnating while everyone else is moving on around me, and if that's the case, I can only really ctb to end the hurt.

 

[Gaybonez]

My life is really hopeless. Yes I'm trying to do something to improve it but it's of no use. I see everyone else has some hope in their life, they can fix it and move on, but I will never fix anything. Probably I don't want to fix it , I just want to pass through my own hell of suffering and leave.

I doubt nothing has improved if you have been trying. Name one thing that you have been working on in the last 6 months and what progress you have made towards it.

 

[nopointofliving]

I really feel your pain OP. All I can feel is that I'm stagnating while everyone else is moving on around me, and if that's the case, I can only really ctb to end the hurt.

I'm sorry you feel the same. Hugs

 

[Mr2005]

I'm where I was in 2004. Life came to a standstill. The world has changed considerably in that time and everyone I knew has moved on with their lives. I don't intend to change it. I intend to remain in my bubble and if that doesn't work call it a day

 

[logan]

Try not to compare yourself with others.
Everyone has different strengths and weaknesses.
This comparison only harms you.
Try to recognize your strengths and build on them.

 

[nopointofliving]

I doubt nothing has improved if you have been trying. Name one thing that you have been working on in the last 6 months and what progress you have made towards it.

I read your replies on many posts. I think you shouldn't be here. You're a happy person and you should find a happy forum to share your happy thoughts on. This is my response to all your happy unkind comments you wrote happily across this unhappy forum.

 

[Gaybonez]

Try not to compare yourself with others.
Everyone has different strengths and weaknesses.
This comparison only harms you.
Try to recognize your strengths and build on them.

To add to this. There's people out there who are effectively better than you in every way. They're more intelligent, more attractive, have more wealth, etc. Find a way to cope and move on if the best thing to do here. Follow your own path and do not expect too much from others. However, do have standards for others.

 

[nopointofliving]

Try not to compare yourself with others.
Everyone has different strengths and weaknesses.
This comparison only harms you.
Try to recognize your strengths and build on them.

Sometimes I think so but soon enough I feel sad looking to others. But you're right the key is I should focus in my own journey. Hugs <3

I'm where I was in 2004. Life came to a standstill. The world has changed considerably in that time and everyone I knew has moved on with their lives. I don't intend to change it. I intend to remain in my bubble and if that doesn't work call it a day

I understand. It's safer to stay where we already are, we have no energy to move on. I'm sorry you also feel the same . Hugs <3

 

[LONE WOLF.]

I'm emotionally still stuck in 1991, l just can't move forward due to the emotional pain of my wife's Death and the overwhelming urge to atone for being a failure of a Son and finally be forgiven! But the only people who can forgive me are deceased so l'm stuck in limbo for eternity! No peace even in Death! Dammed for all time to wander in Limbo!

 

[FuneralCry]

Sorry to hear you are suffering, living really can be painful. I know how hard it is to be in a hopeless situation. I wish you well.

 

[luten]

I feel you. I feel incompetent, for not having a life. Recently discussed it with someone (family), all they say is that i have good reasons why I am in this position (disabilities), but it doesn't help me. When you have health problems, you still a person with hopes, and dreams. I did achieve a lot between 2012-2017, unfortunately I could not maintain my success. I think it wouldve been better if I did not have any success back then, because now I know what a life I couldve had if I wasnt in this position. So here I am , almost dead.

 

[Callie Arcale]

My life is really hopeless. Yes I'm trying to do something to improve it but it's of no use. I see everyone else has some hope in their life, they can fix it and move on, but I will never fix anything. Probably I don't want to fix it , I just want to pass through my own hell of suffering and leave.

I hate toxic positivity. So I'm just gonna say I get you and send you a big hug.

Life is, indeed, hopeless for some of us. Saying that is not a hyperbole, it's not negativity or self-pity. It's a fact.

 

[noname223]

I can relate. The wishes of all my friends become true while I become more resentful, desperate and angry about the world. Fuck that.