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In my community we have colorism. Where lighter skinned woman are favored over dark skinned womanWhat's colorism?
I understand completely. Been through so much pain and yet I couldn't go through with my last attempt. It's so hard. Sorry you're going through this. Religious trauma is hell.
Honestly this even happens for some black people in the u.s.- people who are much darker black are often looked down on by lighter skinned black people- I've seen some black comedians talking about this.
I think you posted that you had a recent sn attempt where you stopped due to the pain being 4 out of 10- I really hope I can push through that when i try sn. I do wonder if it was the pain level or the SI or the combination that stopped you- it seems like maybe it was mainly the SI.
I do have a belief that after this life there is most likely a much better life, though I am not comletely certain- I am hoping that looking forward to that, and looking forward to leaving problems behind here, can help me to push through.
