Venting What if I was predestined to ctb?

[KillingPain267]

My family and others simply have to accept it, just like I had to accept that my ex left or that I developed my mental illnesses in teen years. They just happened and I had to accept them. There is nothing that could have been prevented. Suicide is also part of our reality. It's what it is. The faster people get it through their heads the easier it will be to cope.

 

[Nightfoot]

I'm sorry you're struggling with so much pain. It's hard for others to understand what they've never experienced themselves, which is frustrating.

 

[Pale_Rider]

Maybe I was predestined to ctb also? Good question. It could be argued.

 

[KillingPain267]

Maybe I was predestined to ctb also? Good question. It could be argued.

If we finally do it, we were predestined. People need to accept that there was nothing they could have done to prevent it.

 

[fedup1982]

My family and others simply have to accept it, just like I had to accept that my ex left or that I developed my mental illnesses in teen years. They just happened and I had to accept them. There is nothing that could have been prevented. Suicide is also part of our reality. It's what it is. The faster people get it through their heads the easier it will be to cope.

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We might be predestined to do it, given we live in a deterministic universe. But similarly, although we may be deterministically wired to want to CTB, that doesn't mean people aren't destined to save us from ourselves