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golgappa

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Time and time again I am reminded that I am not perfect I can never achieve anything good and I have no talent today I felt it again I am stuck in life idk what to do do I even try to do better? Idk ig i don't that's why I get to hear it again and again I give up i really am good at nothing
 
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SomewhatLoved

SomewhatLoved

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Apr 12, 2023
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Time and time again I am reminded that I am not perfect I can never achieve anything good and I have no talent
Everyone has talent. We are all imbued with something, maybe you just haven't found it yet! The harsh truth is even talent will take effort, and some of us have barely enough effort to give to do simple things like get out of bed, eat, brush your teeth/hair, get dressed, go to work/school, etc. Your opportunity may come where you are able to show your talent, though. Just you wait.

I felt it again I am stuck in life idk what to do do I even try to do better?
Do you have any life goals or dreams?

btw, golgappa/panipuri is very tasty :)
 
ThatGuyOverThere

ThatGuyOverThere

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Apr 25, 2024
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The concept of being "perfect" or "Having Talent", is dumb, The idea of a perfect person is a simply just societies idea of the perfect foot soldier IE a person that this productive or helps to uphold the dominant culture, and that keeps social cohesion even if it come at the cost of others, you should value being "imperfect" as you actually being you. "Imperfect" is a morally loaded term used to insult those that reject the dominant values and that think and act for themselves.

"Talent" is simply just your ability to maintain your position within a flawed society and so if your untalented it means your incapable of falling for the deception needed to function within said flawed society.

You should instead try to make the best out of yourself, and care only for your self image instead of trying to fit into a mould that clearly wasn't shaped for you, in order to to appease other images of you. I'm sure that there are things that you are talented at, that maybe society doesn't consider impotent, but that you might, and really that's all that matters.
 
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idontwanttosuffer

idontwanttosuffer

I am hopelessly in love with a memory. An echo.
May 25, 2025
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Talent is pointless and no one is perfect.

If you are talent and till you reach 18 you'll be called prodigy. Post that ordinary. So talent is pointless.
 
Carrot

Carrot

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Feb 25, 2025
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Time and time again I am reminded that I am not perfect I can never achieve anything good and I have no talent today I felt it again I am stuck in life idk what to do do I even try to do better? Idk ig i don't that's why I get to hear it again and again I give up i really am good at nothing
Nobody is perfect, we all have strengths and weaknesses. Some of us have more strengths or more weaknesses, life is not fair. It is up to us to figure out what interests us, what our values and goals are, what we are good at.

Some people have "talent", but often it's hard work, doing something efficiently, learning something efficiently over a huge amount of time. Not everybody is willing to put in that work and that is fine. I think that a lot of people want to skip the "journey" and just instantly be good at something. That's not how it works. So we are stuck between "not enjoying the current state" and "not worth putting in the effort".

I think that beocming self-dependant is a good start, or at least it would be for me, if I was to try. Once I feel safe and stable, I can pursue my goals, which I had and pursued for several years, but things changed to the worse over time.

If somebody doesn't want to take part in this, then they should be allowed to leave in a peaceful way. Currently that is not widely accepted.
 

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