My wife told me i have a small penis.

[MusashiX]

A couple weeks ago my wife told me i have a small penis and this has been bothering me ever since. I dont place great importance on penis size and never really thought anything until i heard this from her. Its not even that the fact bothers me but more that she was willing to say it to me. Ive never heard of any exes saying this about me but im sure its true as ive always known it wasnt big, but i never really realized it was small until now. Again, it is more that she said it that bothers me than the fact that it is small. Why would my wife say this to me? She was mad at me. I have been mad at her but never make derogatory statements about her body to her or anyone else. There are things i could say but dont.

 

[Dot]

Tht ws v unknd on hr prt - it snds lke sh/ wntd 2 hrt ur feelngs in tht momnt & sh/ knw tht wld hrt u

Hve u discssd ths w/ hr snce it happnd

Am srry u r lft feelng lke ths

 

[MusashiX]

Tht ws v unknd on hr prt - it snds lke sh/ wntd 2 hrt ur feelngs in tht momnt & sh/ knw tht wld hrt u

Hve u discssd ths w/ hr snce it happnd

Am srry u r lft feelng lke ths

Yeah thats basically what she said.

 

[Dot]

Yeah thats basically what she said.

"I have been mad at her but never make derogatory statements about her body to her or anyone else. There are things i could say but dont"

Dd u tll hr tht ^^ & tll hr hw th cmmnts mde u fl

 

[MusashiX]

Yes. She gave a half-ass apology and just kept saying "Dont pretend you didnt know." I honestly didnt know.

 

[Dot]

Yes. She gave a half-ass apology and just kept saying "Dont pretend you didnt know." I honestly didnt know.

S/ sh/ eithr nt rlly v srry or fls v gulty fr syng it 2 u & nt knw hw 2 apprch it

Am srry u r in tht postn

Hpeflly sh/ thnks abt it & cmes rnd whn sh/ nt feelng s/ defnsve

 

[noname223]

I think it would help if you talked with her openly about the topic. Saying that it hurt your feelings. Maybe ask her if this really bothers her or if she just said it to hurt you.
I have read size is not that decisive.

You can be glad to have a wife or former partners. I did not even have one partner in my whole life which really hurts me a lot. Still I understand that toxic relationships can hurt.

 

[Rational man]

Its not about cock size but a hidden problem that manifests into these comments. Why has it t taken so long for here to say it ?

 

[BeansOfRequirement]

2022 is amazing.

 

[Foresight]

Yes. She gave a half-ass apology and just kept saying "Dont pretend you didnt know." I honestly didnt know.

She is out of control in this situation, I'm sorry. Is she able to have an honest and good conversation with you about this?

 

[Chinaski]

Am l really about to post in a thread entitled "my wife told me l have a small penis"?

Yes. Yes it would appear that l am.

If the size hasn't bothered you before, then don't let it now. There are men who have normal, average sized penises who needlessly stress about it being small and it becomes a hangup. If you're okay with it, carry on as you were and just put it down as a hurtful comment in the heat of the moment imo.

 

[MusashiX]

I think it would help if you talked with her openly about the topic. Saying that it hurt your feelings. Maybe ask her if this really bothers her or if she just said it to hurt you.
I have read size is not that decisive.

You can be glad to have a wife or former partners. I did not even have one partner in my whole life which really hurts me a lot. Still I understand that toxic relationships can hurt.

I am sorry friend. That was how life was for me until my mid 20s. I can remember the pain it caused me. I understand.

Am l really about to post in a thread entitled "my wife told me l have a small penis"?

Yes. Yes it would appear that l am.

If the size hasn't bothered you before, then don't let it now. There are men who have normal, average sized penises who needlessly stress about it being small and it becomes a hangup. If you're okay with it, carry on as you were and just put it down as a hurtful comment in the heat of the moment imo.

I hear you and youre right. It doesnt really bother me beyond the extent of trying to figure out why all the sudden she comes out and says that to me. If i never got another drop of sex for the rest of my life i wouldnt care anymore. I just want the Menieres disease to go away.

 

[Chinaski]

men who have normal, average sized penises who needlessly stress about it being small and it becomes a hangup.

May l just take this opportunity to clarify that I'm not speaking from experience here, please can all readers feel reassured to know that my manhood is so impressively robust that if it had a brain, it would rule the world - in order to quell any confusion which may have arisen from my prior post l have prepared a photograph to act as evidence which l will now proceed to pm to all users with a cute anime girl avatar, please treat this exhibit with the respect and maturity this serious matter warrants and not reduce it to titillation, thank you.

 

[LADY007]

A couple weeks ago my wife told me i have a small penis and this has been bothering me ever since. I dont place great importance on penis size and never really thought anything until i heard this from her. Its not even that the fact bothers me but more that she was willing to say it to me. Ive never heard of any exes saying this about me but im sure its true as ive always known it wasnt big, but i never really realized it was small until now. Again, it is more that she said it that bothers me than the fact that it is small. Why would my wife say this to me? She was mad at me. I have been mad at her but never make derogatory statements about her body to her or anyone else. There are things i could say but dont.

Dr. Ruth here !!!There is something far more important than penis size. She just used that to hurt you for something else. I am being very raw, here. but my favorite lover had a short, fat penis. Actually,THE MOST SATISFYING sex I ever had did not require a penis at all! A fellow takes a vibrator to the clitoris and 2 or 3 fingers in the vagina at the same time and EUREKA.....beats a penis any day!!! The clitoris is higher up than any penis can reach so two separate entities have to satisfy two places at the same time. Orgasms from a vibrator and inserted fingers are awesome. Just saying....

 

[Feeding Pigeons]

Dr. Ruth here !!!There is something far more important than penis size. She just used that to hurt you for something else. I am being very raw, here. but my favorite lover had a short, fat penis. Actually,THE MOST SATISFYING sex I ever had did not require a penis at all! A fellow takes a vibrator to the clitoris and 2 or 3 fingers in the vagina at the same time and EUREKA.....beats a penis any day!!! The clitoris is higher up than any penis can reach so two separate entities have to satisfy two places at the same time. Orgasms from a vibrator and inserted fingers are awesome. Just saying....

See this is why I said I enjoy your posts.

 

[Chinaski]

Dr. Ruth here !!!There is something far more important than penis size. She just used that to hurt you for something else. I am being very raw, here. but my favorite lover had a short, fat penis. Actually,THE MOST SATISFYING sex I ever had did not require a penis at all! A fellow takes a vibrator to the clitoris and 2 or 3 fingers in the vagina at the same time and EUREKA.....beats a penis any day!!! The clitoris is higher up than any penis can reach so two separate entities have to satisfy two places at the same time. Orgasms from a vibrator and inserted fingers are awesome. Just saying....

There is more valuable info in this one post than there is in the entire Night Night Method Megathread.

 

[motel rooms]

A classic dick move that wives make. Just tell her that her perception of your penis is distorted because she has an extremely loose vagina.

 

[LADY007]

See this is why I said I enjoy your posts.

I swear to God ...you just made my day !!! YOU will probably appreciate this.....Senior year in high school in my English class, the male teacher saw me raise my hand to answer a question and he said " Mother (my last name),, our sexologist in residence, you answer this"(I didn't dress provocatively or anything but that was his way of flirting.) Kidding aside, mechanically, what I said makes sense.

There is more valuable info in this one post than there is in the entire Night Night Method Megathread.

I can't stop laughing !!!! It's the truth!!!! There is such an idiotic focus size it's pathetic.

There is more valuable info in this one post than there is in the entire Night Night Method Megathread.

I swear to God ...you just made my day !!! YOU will probably appreciate this.....Senior year in high school in my English class, the male teacher saw me raise my hand to answer a question and he said " Mother (my last name),, our sexologist in residence, you answer this"(I didn't dress provocatively or anything but that was his way of flirting.) Kidding aside, mechanically, what I said makes sense.

May l just take this opportunity to clarify that I'm not speaking from experience here, please can all readers feel reassured to know that my manhood is so impressively robust that if it had a brain, it would rule the world - in order to quell any confusion which may have arisen from my prior post l have prepared a photograph to act as evidence which l will now proceed to pm to all users with a cute anime girl avatar, please treat this exhibit with the respect and maturity this serious matter warrants and not reduce it to titillation, thank you.

Correct....not meant for titillation !! We are talking real sex education here !!

 

[Feeding Pigeons]

There is more valuable info in this one post than there is in the entire Night Night Method Megathread.

I like seeing you having some fun cracking wise, Chinaski.

A classic dick move that wives make. Just tell her that her perception of your dick is distorted by the fact that she has a loose vagina.

This is hilarious but don't do this. @MusashiX I think you're a sweet soul for never saying anything wrong about your wife's body, and you should stay that way. Let her debase herself by hitting below the belt. Don't stoop to her level.

(I didn't dress provocatively or anything but that was his way of flirting.)

Oh please, you might've dressed respectfully but he probably could hear the music inside of you.

 

[LADY007]

I am sorry friend. That was how life was for me until my mid 20s. I can remember the pain it caused me. I understand.

I hear you and youre right. It doesnt really bother me beyond the extent of trying to figure out why all the sudden she comes out and says that to me. If i never got another drop of sex for the rest of my life i wouldnt care anymore. I just want the Menieres disease to go away.

It is a very mean thing to say to a man.......in your case.....it was a desperate attempt to hurt you so forget it. Size means nothing. I wish I knew what to tell you to get her to reveal the real reason behind her anger. Anger is only a symptom of some emotion behind it ..fear, sadness, humiliation etc. If you could get her to admit what it REALLY is....a genuine conversation would begin. HUGS

I like seeing you having some fun cracking wise, Chinaski.

This is hilarious but don't do this. @MusashiX I think you're a sweet soul for never saying anything wrong about your wife's body, and you should stay that way. Let her debase herself by hitting below the belt. Don't stoop to her level.

Oh please, you might've dressed respectfully but he probably could hear the music inside of you.

Had much music in my soul but only special people were allowed to handle my guitar !!! (I will be laughing all day from this...was trying to help but I knew I would get some interesting comments from this!!)

 

[Wrennie]

Am l really about to post in a thread entitled "my wife told me l have a small penis"?

Yes. Yes it would appear that l am.

Congratulations

 

[LADY007]

Yes. She gave a half-ass apology and just kept saying "Dont pretend you didnt know." I honestly didnt know.

We are talking about a passive/aggressive response here. You might want to ask "How did I hurt you?"

I think it would help if you talked with her openly about the topic. Saying that it hurt your feelings. Maybe ask her if this really bothers her or if she just said it to hurt you.
I have read size is not that decisive.

You can be glad to have a wife or former partners. I did not even have one partner in my whole life which really hurts me a lot. Still I understand that toxic relationships can hurt.

Ask her how you hurt her. People have a hard time holding back an answer when asked this.

 

[whatevs]

Doesn't look good on her, and the fact that you refuse to respond in the same level says a lot about who is at fault. Very infantile. As they said, it must be that she is hurt by something you said or did and this was a retribution.

I would try to discuss calmly how important the size of my dick is to her if I was in this situation and it bothered me.

"Don't pretend that you didn't know"
"OK, then let's talk about it. Is its size a deal breaker or are you upset about something else?"

 

[thisplaceisaprison]

Yes. She gave a half-ass apology and just kept saying "Dont pretend you didnt know." I honestly didnt know.

Taking the low road here, "and you only notice because you're getting loose "
Also I'm a gay man, not a misogynyist. I just thought it was funny and also kind of a way to say something as an example of how what she said out of frustration reflected back as if you said it.

 

[Ligottian]

You should have asked her how many has she compared it to.

 

[Eternal Oblivion]

How long is it? Let us know to better understand the situation.

 

[Rob1984]

If she was honestly trying to hurt your feelings, then there are some big underlying problems here. That's a very childish insult to make to somebody, let alone your partner. You definitely need to let her know how it made you feel and discuss why she said it. Worst thing to do is keep it to yourself and not address it to her.

Then again, we are only hearing your side of the story. For all we know, you said some messed up stuff to her too... (just saying)

 

[Dr Iron Arc]

People always say size doesn't matter but if that were true then this insult wouldn't have stood out to you so much. Even if you weren't bothered by the actual statement itself, the fact she felt the need to point it out says enough about the perceived value it has to society at large. Whether or not it's actually too small she still married you so if that was something that really bothered her then it's her fault for not bringing it up sooner. She probably just said that with the sole purpose of hurting your feelings and making you feel worthless. Good to see that it doesn't seem to have worked at least.

As a small-penis-haver (and I'm talking micropenis territory here)it terrifies me to no end knowing that people are always so fake about saying size doesn't matter but the moment you cross them for unrelated reasons, they're always just so eager to bring it up as a flaw. Women do this, men definitely do this, there's no winning here.

 

[Hollowman]

Tell her to do lots of kegels

 

[justsayin]