Mental health ruining relationships

[Blowba]

I been noticing as my mental health is getting worse its also making my relationship frustrating for my bf in which I truly don"t intend in doing. But also with other factors I have learned during my 9 months of my relationship has been taking a huge emotional toll on me. All I want is to be loved by someone who cares about me and shows it to me instead of saying it when all it does just makes me believe they are disinterested and dont mean it at all. I try my best for someone to reciprocate those feels but literally all I get is the bare minimum, is it difficult to get this? I only want to be loved

 

[GoodPersonEffed]

It sounds like your relationship may be making your mental health worse rather than your mental health making the relationship worse.

 

[TheEndIsNigh31]

I'm a male with BPD and it ruined the best relationship I ever had. Being a man with mental health issues is tough as your seen as weak. But a man with BPD is awful

 

[Serenity]

Yep. My mental health completely destroyed my relationship with my ex.

 

[Worthless_nobody]

Gosh I feel this. I have BPD and I have ruined so many relationship. Last one was my husband I pushed him too far. Now he will leave leave...like they all do. The abusive ex had no excuse but I drove my would be normal relationship with. My husband into ground....I hate myself. All I do is self sabotage. It's like I can't help my temper, anxiety and depression...it comes thru no matter what.

 

[TheEndIsNigh31]

Its a awful feeling the push pull effect