Venting I'm sick of being hurt

[Cyc]

I'm sick of friends ghosting me. I'm sick of men using me for sex or physically hurting me whenever I try to date. I'm sick of my family invalidating my trauma and saying I'm lying about being raped. Maybe it's me, maybe I'm the problem

 

[chloeburbank]

You're not the problem. The world is just evil

 

[Macedonian1987]

It is devastatingly painful to be met with cruelty and silence when you deserve support, but please know that the harm others have caused is a reflection of their character, not a flaw in yours. Your trauma is real, your voice matters, and you are not "the problem" for wanting to be treated with the basic human dignity and safety you have been denied. I am so deeply sorry you are carrying this weight

 

[Rockman]

You're probably letting yourself be ridden like a rag.
If you are not comfortable with yourself and seek solace in other people you have failed before you have started.

First, I recommend a detox from people. Get plenty of nature. Once your illness subsides, arm yourself with psychological knowledge about your problems and use it first to renew yourself then build healthy relationships. Generally being a loner has its perks but the absence of human bullshit is probably one of the biggest advantages.

 

[thelostautistic]

You're not the problem

 

[Matchaaa]

You are not the problem,the harm caused by others is the problem.
I hope you can truly free yourself from them and find a healthy way to relate to yourself and the world.

 

[Cyc]

Thank you all so much for the empathy and support shown it truly means a lot to me <3

If you are not comfortable with yourself and seek solace in other people you have failed before you have started.

I'm not trying to find comfort in other people I'm just ranting about how shitty people have been towards me