Venting i hate women

[peacebenow]

Misogyny is not something I want to be dealing with on this forum.

 

[NonEssential]

I can kinda understand (don't agree with it though) the negative feelings if it came from the frustration of not being able to get relationships but if even your sisters make you feel bitter then that really sucks.

 

[caotic_realm]

In a way, I relate to that, but differently—I mean, I wouldn't say I hate women; I think my hatred is more about "loathing certain human patterns."

I was bullied as a teenager; regarding girls, I faced rejection that bordered on both disgust and contempt—as if I were repulsive to them. I told a friend about it, and he said, "That's not good at all." I replied that it didn't matter—I had moved past it, and I never experienced anything like that again during my subsequent years of school.

The point is, I don't think you're a misogynist—and I'm not one either—but take, for example, the recent case of a teacher who committed suicide after a student falsely accused him of abuse. He explained that he had always been very kind to his students, and essentially, the girl tried to exploit that kindness to fabricate a claim that he had abused her. What was the reaction on social media? There were people—men included—who suggested the teacher probably *had* done it; consequently, feminist "collectives" and related pages—including an "authority figure" (woman)—remarked that it was "better that he killed himself." Consequently, I detest that segment of the "feminist collective" that claims men are inherently evil; conversely, I also believe it is not entirely true to view women's nature as manipulative and malicious—not all women are like that, and I will not generalize. Despite any rejections I have faced, despite never having had a girlfriend or sex, and despite having been scorned or insulted by women, I do not believe every woman in the world deserves my hatred simply because of a bias stemming from a few frustrated, stupid individuals (of either gender) who want to believe the opposite sex is evil.

It is ironic when people write to you here with a certain disdain or hatred; perhaps they, too, have been hated—possibly due to a misunderstanding. I believe your situation—though I don't mean to justify it—is just that: a misunderstanding. I don't think you are a misogynist; you have simply had very bad experiences with women, much like the woman who wrote here about suffering sexual abuse and trauma at the hands of certain men.