Venting i hate women

[Leonard_Bangley39]

it's just as the title says. i hate women. it's hard to describe how exactly i feel, i just have a bitterness whenever i think of them. My sisters, classmates, coworkers, almost every interaction ive had left me feeling bitter and resentful towards them. I just hate them.

I never show it on my face or act out on it.

I don't want to call myself an incel, nor do i want to associate or mingle in those types of crowds, but i feel like most people who see me online would probably apply that label towards me.

I dont try to intentionally browse or scroll through posts and threads online like that, it's just a common thing to stumble across. especially with that one woman who strangled her 3 kids to death being all over the news, it feels like every other post you see online is just clips or posts talking about tons and tons of women saying that she was innocent or that it was the husband's fault. It just makes me wish we would repeal the 19th amendment.

And i know that not everything you see online is representative of the real world or everyone, but its really fucking hard for me to try and maintain that mindset when almost every real life interaction ive had just strengthens that ideal that women fucking suck.

it feels like i just dont fit anywhere in this world. like i was always just the weird lolcow kid that peers would make fun of or be mean towards.

The worst part is, i want nothing more than to connect with someone and have some kidn of relationship, but im honest to God not even sure if i am capable of connecting with anyone anymore. I just cant give a shit about anyone no matter what. when theyre telling me about their day, or their interests, or their experiences, things they like, things they dont like. I just cant give a shit anymore about anything other than myself.

 

[ctb_warrior]

it's just as the title says. i hate women. it's hard to describe how exactly i feel, i just have a bitterness whenever i think of them. My sisters, classmates, coworkers, almost every interaction ive had left me feeling bitter and resentful towards them. I just hate them.

I never show it on my face or act out on it.

I don't want to call myself an incel, nor do i want to associate or mingle in those types of crowds, but i feel like most people who see me online would probably apply that label towards me.

I dont try to intentionally browse or scroll through posts and threads online like that, it's just a common thing to stumble across. especially with that one woman who strangled her 3 kids to death being all over the news, it feels like every other post you see online is just clips or posts talking about tons and tons of women saying that she was innocent or that it was the husband's fault. It just makes me wish we would repeal the 19th amendment.

And i know that not everything you see online is representative of the real world or everyone, but its really fucking hard for me to try and maintain that mindset when almost every real life interaction ive had just strengthens that ideal that women fucking suck.

it feels like i just dont fit anywhere in this world. like i was always just the weird lolcow kid that peers would make fun of or be mean towards.

The worst part is, i want nothing more than to connect with someone and have some kidn of relationship, but im honest to God not even sure if i am capable of connecting with anyone anymore. I just cant give a shit about anyone no matter what. when theyre telling me about their day, or their interests, or their experiences, things they like, things they dont like. I just cant give a shit anymore about anything other than myself.

You are not alone. One of my close friend, he has all the women surrounding him in his life, his mother, his sister, his wife, his mother in law
All of them have made that poor chap's life a living hell.. he slit his wrist once due to the torture.
He's somehow fighting the situation now..
He's earning good money, he's feeling everyone have good food and luxury, still these women are harassing him emotionally and mentally

 

[discernment]

I think I can understand why you would feel bitter after having a lot of experiences with people that left you feeling rejected or hurt. When enough interactions go badly, it's pretty easy for your brain to start looking for a common denominator and turn that into "women are the problem"

The stuff you see online probably isn't helping either. Algorithms are incredibly good at putting the most inflammatory examples in front of you, because anger and outrage keep people engaged. Seeing thousands of comments defending one awful person doesn't necessarily mean that thousands of women genuinely believe what you're being shown, and it certainly isn't evidence of what women as a whole think. I am a woman, and to be very clear, I think what LC did is absolutely abhorrent and indefensible.

You don't have to suddenly start loving women or pretending that your experiences didn't happen, but, i'd be careful about letting resentment become your identity. You can definitely acknowledge that individual women have treated you badly without making every woman responsible for what those people did. Hope this doesn't read like i'm trying to convince you of anything, I just wanted to give my input

 

[lastappleonearth]

it's just as the title says. i hate women. it's hard to describe how exactly i feel, i just have a bitterness whenever i think of them. My sisters, classmates, coworkers, almost every interaction ive had left me feeling bitter and resentful towards them. I just hate them.

I never show it on my face or act out on it.

I don't want to call myself an incel, nor do i want to associate or mingle in those types of crowds, but i feel like most people who see me online would probably apply that label towards me.

I dont try to intentionally browse or scroll through posts and threads online like that, it's just a common thing to stumble across. especially with that one woman who strangled her 3 kids to death being all over the news, it feels like every other post you see online is just clips or posts talking about tons and tons of women saying that she was innocent or that it was the husband's fault. It just makes me wish we would repeal the 19th amendment.

And i know that not everything you see online is representative of the real world or everyone, but its really fucking hard for me to try and maintain that mindset when almost every real life interaction ive had just strengthens that ideal that women fucking suck.

it feels like i just dont fit anywhere in this world. like i was always just the weird lolcow kid that peers would make fun of or be mean towards.

The worst part is, i want nothing more than to connect with someone and have some kidn of relationship, but im honest to God not even sure if i am capable of connecting with anyone anymore. I just cant give a shit about anyone no matter what. when theyre telling me about their day, or their interests, or their experiences, things they like, things they dont like. I just cant give a shit anymore about anything other than myself.

Idk bro, I feel like sometimes you can generalise certain groups based on their behaviour, but not a whole gender. I'd suggest spending less time on social media, it doesn't portray reality and just affects you negatively. And ofc I can't speak for your irl interactions, as I wasn't there obviously, but if you go into interactions with your already very negative biases, then chances are that this torpedoes the interaction before it even began. I do think it's true that a lot of ppl in general suck, but that doesn't have anything to do with gender

 

[darksouls]

women have always hated me,
even the women who said they were my friends
were mean and disgusting to me

 

[fleurdelune]

just curious -- what real-life interactions are you having with women that cement in your mind the idea that women as a group suck? if you don't mind me asking, ofc

i hope you find somewhere in which you feel you belong, as improbable as it may sound. i don't feel like i belong either, but the feeling is supposed to be nice :***)

 

[DeathSweetDeath]

All that and yet no mention of your mother.