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stimabuse

stimabuse

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Sep 15, 2025
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I think I have everything thought up about the way im going to ctb, mby i will back out on the day im supposed to do it but if not is it possible to just not have your body preserved in any way? Or if not I at the very least do not want my remains to get in the hands of my family as I know almost for certain that they would not respect any of my wishes.
 
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MrsT-800

MrsT-800

Be the helper of my soul O God
Nov 25, 2025
18
No advice, but agreement. I'd rather just die quietly and quickly, with nothing to remember me by. It's genuinely my wish. Thinking about being remembered or people crying for me, writing stuff for me, going to my funeral… it makes me cringe. Perhaps a donation to science or a medical college is possible.
 
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DeathSweetDeath

Warlock
Nov 12, 2025
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Burial or cremation, those are the choices. My note will say no burial, no funeral or service of any kind, no obit.
 
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daydreamer52

daydreamer52

Someday
Aug 12, 2023
67
I don't want to be remembered either, I just want my name and my face to be forgotten as soon as I die, but that's not up to us sadly. I think the only way that your body wouldn't be preserved is if your death is by self immolation or something like that, if not it will probably be preserved, whether you like it or not, our body stops being ours after we die.
 

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