kittybangbang
...when darkness turns to light...
- Aug 8, 2026
- 4
Has anyone else thought about what they want to happen after they're gone? Like cremation vs burial. "Pulling the plug" if things go wrong and you end up on life support. Etc...
I've thought about it, but realized it doesn't matter much, does it? I think cremation would be better for the people responsible for my funeral. I know it's cheaper than a burial. I don't care about my ashes being spread anywhere significant. But funerals are for the living, not the dead.
Even thinking about what happens to my stuff after I'm gone doesn't matter much to me. Like sure, there's some stuff I need to get rid of before I do anything. But I don't own anything of value. I have a laptop and phone my daughter might want, so I think I'll factory reset them so she'll have immediate access to them. But honestly, she probably won't want anything from me.
The more I think, the more I realize how trivial it all is. Maybe it's just me? Does anyone have an end-of-life plan?
I've thought about it, but realized it doesn't matter much, does it? I think cremation would be better for the people responsible for my funeral. I know it's cheaper than a burial. I don't care about my ashes being spread anywhere significant. But funerals are for the living, not the dead.
Even thinking about what happens to my stuff after I'm gone doesn't matter much to me. Like sure, there's some stuff I need to get rid of before I do anything. But I don't own anything of value. I have a laptop and phone my daughter might want, so I think I'll factory reset them so she'll have immediate access to them. But honestly, she probably won't want anything from me.
The more I think, the more I realize how trivial it all is. Maybe it's just me? Does anyone have an end-of-life plan?
