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19andOverdue

19andOverdue

Member
Jun 12, 2022
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This job was the only thing keeping me tethered. And now it might be stripped from me. The worst part is I don't even know when or if I'll lose it, so CTB is always on the forefront of my mind and it's terrifyingly real.
 
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theboy

theboy

Illuminated
Jul 15, 2022
3,416
If you don't get caught, you have nothing to worry about.
 
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noaccount

Enlightened
Oct 26, 2019
1,098
I am so sorry. Are you facing homelessness if you lose it or do you have a place you can stay? If you're looking for options other than 12-step recovery dogma there's Secular Sobriety or harm reduction groups [1,2]
 
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not-2-b-the-answer

Archangel
Mar 23, 2018
11,333
So sorry this may happen to you. If you go to rehab do you think you might be able to keep your job?
If I lose my current job, I'm out of here. I'm done looking for jobs.
 
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Forever Sleep

Earned it we have...
May 4, 2022
15,516
Maybe this sounds stupid but what would happen if you go to them and confess what you have done? Tell them you are suffering from an addiction but want to make it right? If it's likely you will be caught anyway and possibly end up fired/prosecuted- it may work out better coming from you. Maybe that's a stupid idea though. I'm sorry you are in this situation and I hope it works out.
 
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FrootyBat

FrootyBat

Member
Aug 11, 2022
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Maybe this sounds stupid but what would happen if you go to them and confess what you have done? Tell them you are suffering from an addiction but want to make it right? If it's likely you will be caught anyway and possibly end up fired/prosecuted- it may work out better coming from you. Maybe that's a stupid idea though. I'm sorry you are in this situation and I hope it works out.

Unfortunately, I would recommend the exact opposite. (HR is there for the company and is not your friend.) If they have no idea, then you're fine. I'm not sure what your work rights are where you are so proving something may be irrelevant.

I do hope this situation works out for you. You can always quit before they fire you but if they let you go, you can collect unemployment for a bit.

Admit nothing.
 
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Forever Sleep

Earned it we have...
May 4, 2022
15,516
Unfortunately, I would recommend the exact opposite. (HR is there for the company and is not your friend.) If they have no idea, then you're fine. I'm not sure what your work rights are where you are so proving something may be irrelevant.

I do hope this situation works out for you. You can always quit before they fire you but if they let you go, you can collect unemployment for a bit.

Admit nothing.
Yeah, fair enough... A colleague used to call HR Human Remains... Lol
 
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FuneralCry

FuneralCry

Just wanting some peace
Sep 24, 2020
48,571
That sounds like such an awful situation to be in. I cannot even imagine how hard it must be having to deal with all that. I hope that in whatever happens, you find relief from your suffering.
 
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ojinzo

ojinzo

Specialist
Feb 21, 2022
304
This job was the only thing keeping me tethered. And now it might be stripped from me. The worst part is I don't even know when or if I'll lose it, so CTB is always on the forefront of my mind and it's terrifyingly real.
Are you still employed?
 
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GentleJerk

GentleJerk

Carrot juice pimp.
Dec 14, 2021
1,372
Of course, that's understandable. Hopefully everything turns out for the best.

What does "is it gg" mean? Gang gang? If so, it sounds pretty gang gang to me. 👌
 
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