Are you single?

[maneose]

:9 yea.... i hope i can get a relationship soon, i miss it a lot... but all my relationships people came to me.. i dont have the guts to go up to anyone really and it's wayy harder in college i think

 

[-nobodyknows-]

:9 yea.... i hope i can get a relationship soon, i miss it a lot... but all my relationships people came to me.. i dont have the guts to go up to anyone really and it's wayy harder in college i think

I've never had success with asking anyone out, but if there's someone you have your eye on it doesn't hurt to try. As nerve wracking as it is, it will be completely worth it if they say "yes", right? Smile, look them in the eye, try to sound more cheerful than flirty, and try not to speak too fast!

 

[bleeding_heart_show]

I have never been in a relationship and never will be.

 

[that_guy2611]

Single and for some reason still looking.

 

[monetpompo]

i have a crush on my friend but we're BASICALLY dating. PLEASE believe me

I like showing off but don't want to dox myself too easily (already way too many breadcrumbs, tho lol)
But this is pretty much the style that I wear a lot, but in various colors more/less cute styles depending on the day!:
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Add on top hair with various cute accessories, and at times straight up baby-pink hair to match my coord!

cute!!!!!!!!!!!!! i usually dress in black or neutral colors because that's the most comfortable and androgynous clothes for me to wear. i also like to wear dresses and long skirt sometimes because it makes me look cute lol. i have a black turtleneck and a burgundy frilled shirt that are my favorite tops to wear when i go outside. i hate the summer bc i always look so bad compared to the winter and autumn

 

[Rynalia]

These days yes. A bit too problematic in real life, really don't want to create extra burden on someone else.

 

[bankai]

Yes and will stay single cause,

1.i don't want anyone else to shoulder my problems

2. I don't want their burdens either.

being single is peaceful at least. my mind is a warzone so I need peace.

 

[eattwinkiesseejesus]

Married and miserable

 

[matchalavendercake]

well in this universe i used to have a long distance gf, but now i'm single again… why? bcs she ultimately abandoned me without a word nor a proper breakup. the last time i've heard from her was on the first day of december last year, then on early march this year i decided i had to delete all of my socials as i've lost any hope of hearing from her again at that point. she was the only person i was still even talking to at all, and was also the only person i ever genuinely trusted completely. we first became best friends on late march 2022 then got together on early april 2023, and on early march 2025 i have now moved on from her. i know i won't ever trust anyone ever again, so i don't care about having any type of relationships anymore

i'm definitely going to bring this up again with much more details if i have the courage to post a long vent on this forum, which is what i've been thinking of doing as i haven't had anywhere good to let my absolutely beyond miserable feelings out

 

[bankai]

looking at you sideways, now shoot me. please?

Well played friend,lol.

 

[ThatStateOfMind]

In a relationship. It helps somewhat, but less than you'd imagine. Life still sucks, maybe just a little less than before in my case

 

[CatLvr]

Married and miserable

I'm so sorry. Same, and some days it is almost as unbearable as the chronic pain issues I have. He JUST. WON'T. SHUT. UP.

 

[darksouls]

single and given up

 

[Dark Moon]

Single, I don't know if I would want a relationship because suicide is still on my mind.

 

[kitkat9234]

Divorced. Fucked up my marriage 8 years ago. Wish I could go back and fix things. Even though we had our issues he was probably the best thing to happen to me.

Most recent relationship was a little over 3 years ago that was boarderline abusive and he literally drank himself to death at the end. I am to blame. I wish I never got involved.

I've given up on relationships. I'm an ugly obese slob these days and no one wants anything to do with this.

 

[FishRain3469]

Ehhh.... ya, single.

 

[bankai]

d he literally drank himself to death at the end. I am to blame. I wish I never got involved.

I just posted Whiskey Lullaby in the Sad songs thread few minutes ago

 

[kitkat9234]

I just posted Whiskey Lullaby in the Sad songs thread few minutes ago

I'm not familiar with the song.

I just posted Whiskey Lullaby in the Sad songs thread few minutes ago

Just looked it up. And yes pretty much. Except he hated me in the end. And I regret having anything to do with him.

And I'm jealous he had a way out. Now I'm stuck here in our shit apartment with all his stuff. And some of his ashes. He's haunting me from hell.

 

[alwaysalone]

I always been single because women dont want weak pathetic men... Well, some actually do, but the trick is that they never want me specifically...



can i see how you dress?

Ummm...... ew

 

[Sprite_Geist]

Single.

 

[alwaysalone]

I just posted Whiskey Lullaby in the Sad songs thread few minutes ago

Great song I love Brad Paisley

 

[bankai]

And I'm jealous he had a way out.

But did you actually see him? At the end I mean. Cirrhosis couldn't have been a good way to go.Not quick either.I do understand the sentiment though.

 

[kitkat9234]

But did you actually see him? At the end I mean. Cirrhosis couldn't have been a good way to go.Not quick either.I do understand the sentiment though.

He was diagnosed before we got together but he was sober. Was doing a lot better. Tried to get on the transplant list. We got into a fight and he relapsed. No longer eligible for list. Then got sober again. Another fight I kicked him out because he put his hands on me. He ran away to Las Vegas and drank himself to death. I wasn't there for the end but he did have complications while we were together. Especially after his relapse. I think cause of death was heart attack due to cirrhosis. It sounds like he just collapsed. Then was on life support then end of life care. So maybe was quick? And he was wasted.

In hindsight he manipulated me into moving in with him so I could take care of him for the transplant. Wish I never got involved.

 

[Eriktf]

single and wants to stay single

 

[Angst Filled Fuck Up]

No, but if you ask my girlfriend I'm pretty sure she'll say yes.

 

[mangorose]

I am single and I miss her like hell lol :')

 

[whywere]

I am single and I miss her like hell lol :')

I totally feel and know where you are coming from my good friend, that is why SaSu is a family, we are ALL together and I send you lots of well wishes and caring thoughts as we are family and you are a wonderful soul.

Walter

 

[Imeavie]

I have spent 7 years living with a girlfriend (3 different ones), and now for the past year I have been single. I am not sure how to connect, or enjoy another person romantically anymore, and dating scares me. I am currently trying facebook dating to try to move forward in life, but no one wants a disabled person with no car, and no home.

 

[star.trip]

I'm single

If I have enough problems with myself, imagine being in a relationship. I don't need any more problems than I already have. Besides, how can I love someone when I don't even love myself (I'm talking about self-love, self-esteem)?

I've accepted that I'll never have a partner, (it's sad and heartbreaking) but it's the best I can do. Too many problems on top of the ones I already have.
Sometimes, I tell myself that love is for people who know, for professionals

When I see a couple holding hands, or giving each other a look of complicity, I recognize that it makes me envious but I understand that I can never have that because of my low self-esteem and abilities

 

[R. A.]

no one wants a disabled person with no car, and no home.

That's it, isn't it?

all my serious relationships spawned naturally from social or serendipitous situations. i have never had any luck at all from actively "dating" which i find is a vile cutthroat game in this day, age and part of the world.
when i tried to play it for the first time a few years ago, i was getting eviscerated at the total lack of social norms that are just fucking par for the course on apps. having a good chat with someone over messages for a good while and they suddenly vanish - how fucking weird would it be if you were talking to someone at a bar, and after something normal you said, they just got up and walked out? the fuck is wrong with people?

now that i don't go anywhere or do anything though, i obviously won't ever be in the circumstances to just organically have something start like the previous times. plus, the last time was bullshit being lied to and abandoned due to their own insecurity bullshit when i was nothing but kind, gentle, and ok with whatever direction things went in (including being only friends, or at least being told honestly if we weren't going to have any contact going forward).

i'm sick of people's shit. the only thing i miss is the intimacy, but i've become so fucked up in all the ways i'm not sure i could enjoy it like i once did.