Would you kill yourself over a girl?

[Steamm]

It's been 6 months since she left me to date another guy but I can't still accept, it hurts so much everytime I remember her.

 

[yive]

Would you kill yourself over a girl?

for me... yes

 

[LONE WOLF.]

NEVER!

 

[sadbadpsychogirl]

no don't do that. i've been there but it really does get better with time. keep yourself as busy as possible. good luck!

 

[Endeavour]

Go and read the red pill at reddit. Girls should read it too. It's very male oriented but really it's about pinning your own worth on yourself, not someone else.

You shouldn't kill yourself over an ex, male or female.

 

[Hurt]

Nope. There are too many girls in this world to worry about only one. Maybe a therapist could help you to deal with this. Personally I wouldn't do it.

 

[SuicidallyCurious]

No , never and what Endeavour said. Even if you get to the point where you are too old and crusty to date there are always alternatives to get laid in the increasingly decadent society.

 

[death137]

Personally no. But I won't say its an invalid reason. Any reason can be valid to ctb if the person think so. You decide.

 

[Bigpink]

Been there, at the time I thought maybe. Looking back, over her? No way.
It speaks to something deeper.

 

[AprilsBlessings]

No please don't do that
No one should kill themselves over an ex :(

Just take your time to deal with it, and when you feel better you'll realize that there are many good girls in the world and you'll find your perfect match

 

[whatever101]

It's been 6 months since she left me to date another guy but I can't still accept, it hurts so much everytime I remember her.

It's been 4 months since she left me. And that's the reason why I'm here. Thinking about ctb, trying to find a method. She left me by saying I'm not worthy of her. Later I found out she cheated on me one month before the break up and she was pinning everything on me. I got drunk and texted her mom. Didn't say anything other than I need to talk to you. But ya now her friend says my single text ruined my gfs life. So I don't want to live knowing that I ruined her life, the person I love the most. Yes I still love her and I'm still trying to win her over. But I know she won't be coming back. I just want to ctb

 

[stygal]

Whenever I thought the pain was too much...I took some time off from dating/socializing. Then after a year gotten back into it and met someone new who had other things to offer. So there's always a chance of that happening.

 

[AprilsBlessings]

It's been 4 months since she left me. And that's the reason why I'm here. Thinking about ctb, trying to find a method. She left me by saying I'm not worthy of her. Later I found out she cheated on me one month before the break up and she was pinning everything on me. I got drunk and texted her mom. Didn't say anything other than I need to talk to you. But ya now her friend says my single text ruined my gfs life. So I don't want to live knowing that I ruined her life, the person I love the most. Yes I still love her and I'm still trying to win her over. But I know she won't be coming back. I just want to ctb

Maybe her friend is guilt tripping you?

 

[whatever101]

Maybe her friend is just guilt tripping you?

No. I know my gfs parents. They are very strict. Nothing matters anymore. I hate myself for what I did.

 

[Nymph]

I personally wouldn't but that's just because I never really had a long term relationship and never felt that strongly about people but I guess if I had some true life then maybe but idk. I know with therapy you can work through things like this

 

[KleinerWolf]

Hoes aren't loyal,
To each their own.

don't kill yourself,
I know it's unfair for you,
But you will find better.

 

[Brick In The Wall]

Personally no. But I won't say its an invalid reason. Any reason can be valid to ctb if the person think so. You decide.

This is probably the best answer I'd go with. It's the same answer I go with anytime there's a "Would you CTB over X reason?" thread.

 

[FluffyDove]

I'm sorry you're hurting so much right now. Breakups are awful. I can promise you though, it WILL get better. Breakups happen for a reason, and eventually you will find someone who is right for you if you stay long enough to allow yourself. Message me if you need to talk, no judgement here. Take care x

 

[Deleted member 24434]

I've been through painful breakups where I couldn't see any life without them, however it really does get better and you move on. I personally wouldn't take my life over an ex. But that's just me, I understand everyone is different.

 

[AprilsBlessings]

No. I know my gfs parents. They are very strict. Nothing matters anymore. I hate myself for what I did.

I'm sorry for what you've been through, i would honestly think that karma punished her.

and if you still feel guilty about it, it's been month now and in my opinion you've already got your punishment, there's nothing worse than feeling guilty, and the guilt lead you to here.

in my opinion, i think you should put an end to this chapter and forgive yourself.

I hope you feel better soon <3

 

[an_alias]

yes and i already have

 

[Szs33]

maybe

 

[Promortalistic4Life]

I don't think I would end my life over a thot. "Bros over hoes", as the saying goes.

 

[Amumu]

Probably yes, given I'm already seriously mentally ill.
It would be like a shoot of H. When it's gone, it's going to hurt.

 

[Nymph]

Any reason is valid and it's for you to decide but this is an issue that can become easier with time and maybe some therapy and stuff. It's really up to you though, I hope it gets better for you

 

[Life_and_Death]

ive put serious consideration into killing myself over guys, but i backed myself into a situation with no answer.

 

[WasGehtnAb?]

No offence but your reaction may be the reason why she left...

To make it clear. Your reaction is very intense.

If you want to end your life because of a woman it sounds like this woman IS your world.
That's way to much in my eyes, not a stable ground for a healthy realitonship.

 

[mirko]

Look I'm not in any way pro-life, but have you considered talking to someone?

But in the end this your life and you are free to decide what to do with it

 

[KleinerWolf]

To make it clear. Your reaction is very intense.

If you want to end your life because of a woman it sounds like this woman IS your world.
That's way to much in my eyes, not a stable ground for a healthy realitonship.

People in a relationship should not give too much power to the other person. It's not going to work out like that.

but his ex cheated, so that's on her.

 

[WasGehtnAb?]

I'm definitely not a feminist but I guess there is a difference in the way men and women cheat.

Men because there is an opportunity.
Women because they are not happy in their realtionship.

This is not science but my own observation.
Sound unfair but life isn't fair.