When is it valid to ctb?

[Cheemo]

Like I feel like Im not trying hard enough and I'm just pathetic and lazy. Is it when you are hopeless? When is someone hopeless? Is it when you have no family or friends left? Is it when you're no longer scared of death? I just want to see if I have a valid enough reason to ctb or not.

 

[nopointofliving]

We were brought up to life with no valid reason , its fair to leave for any reason out there. the most important thing is to be sure of your decision. Hugs to you my friend

 

[ItsTimeToExit]

No one can give you the reason or validation you seek.

To CTB is an intensely personal thing that the only person capable of providing a good reason and validation is yourself.

 

[Cheemo]

We were brought up to life with no valid reason , its fair to leave for any reason out there. the most important thing is to be sure of your decision. Hugs to you my friend

How do you know when you are sure though?
I'm never sure of anything I do. I can't even make simple decisions for myself.

 

[nopointofliving]

How do you know when you are sure though?
I'm never sure of anything I do. I can't even make simple decisions for myself.

It depends on how you view life. If u have a tiny little hope in life, then you should re think your decision. You may think there is no hope for you, but deep within , you may think that making small steps can improve your life. In such case, you still have hope and you aren't 100% sure of suicide. being sure of suicide means you lost all the hope. If you need to talk about it, please msg me, I'd love to support you . Much love

 

[Worndown]

If you are asking you are probably not ready.

 

[settheory]

Whenever you frickin want. Your body and life belong to you and you only. Not even to your friends and family. If society thinks otherwise, if they think they own your body, spit in their face.

 

[FuneralCry]

I do not think there is such a thing as a valid enough reason. We did not ask to be born so we have no obligations to stay alive. As others have said, it is an personal decision, only you know if it is the right thing.

 

[DunnoWhyButYeah]

There is nothing specific valid reason. It is enough for me to know that it is the only right option. So probably it's the same for everyone. We each have a different life, no situations and reasons can be compared.

 

[Cant go back]

There is no valid reason, I think it boils down to how you feel.

Some people don't see a future with their current situation and ctb because of that.

Some think the world will be better off without them so they believe ctb will be the right thing.

Some have crippling mental illness and are straight up not thinking properly.

Some people have nobody and some have lots of people that care about them. But they still want to ctb. I think a lot of people have a fear of death because they just don't know what happens on the other side. My comfort is that we all gotta go sometime, and sometimes you get to choose when.

My opinion is that if you're searching for a reason then ctb is not meant for you. I think a lot of people on here have already decided and are just waiting for the right time or hoping that something changes in their life to change their mind.

 

[BottomlessPit]

Whenever you feel like it. The validity lies in your willingness, nowhere else.

 

[Cheemo]

It depends on how you view life. If u have a tiny little hope in life, then you should re think your decision. You may think there is no hope for you, but deep within , you may think that making small steps can improve your life. In such case, you still have hope and you aren't 100% sure of suicide. being sure of suicide means you lost all the hope. If you need to talk about it, please msg me, I'd love to support you . Much love

How do I privately message you?

 

[Versailles]

The reasons are personal, but I guess the ones you have named above are valid reasons too, I think of the CTB as a rational decision

 

[Cheemo]

The reasons are personal, but I guess the ones you have named above are valid reasons too, I think of the CTB as a rational decision

Love the Makise icon c:

 

[motel rooms]

When is someone hopeless?

You'll know it when you feel it

 

[All Things Must Pass]

When one wants to.

 

[Amumu]

Like I feel like Im not trying hard enough and I'm just pathetic and lazy.

I'm never sure of anything I do. I can't even make simple decisions for myself.

Honestly I get the impression you're making a parody of mentally ill people and it's worrying.
If you're not then I apologise, but it's red flags for me.

 

[Schevan]

I kind of put it on a list. Pain vs pleasure. If you hurt so much in life and there are so many things that can't get better, that's pain for as long as you live. If the pleasure can drown out and override bad plains, then sometimes it levels out. But you don't have to be hurting to want to die. No one can say for anyone if they should or not. It happens when you know you need to.

 

[WatermelonMel]

When is it valid to CTB

When you've felt like it long enough to know that it's what you really want.

 

[Cheemo]

Honestly I get the impression you're making a parody of mentally ill people and it's worrying.
If you're not then I apologise, but it's red flags for me.

Ah I'm sorry if I came out that way. I am mentally ill myself with depression, borderline personality disorder, and bipolar. I just self loathe a lot and I feel like I'm lazy and pathetic all the time.

I am a friend mumu, you not lonely mummy anymore c:

 

[Bullit]

I go back n forth. Do not want this life. But to die??? I dk!

 

[insanedoomer]

when you can jump on impulse .