What will leave in your note?

[GOODHI]

I think mine will be To everyone I love you all, have forgiven everyone and I hope you pray for me, forgive me and do righteous deeds in my name Don't forget me or these things years from now please. No one made me do it. It wasn't anyone's fault. Please don't blame yourself. I was going to do it no matter what. You couldn't stop it or change it no matter what. I love you all

 

[TheHatedOne]

1) How I want to be buried (cremated and my ashes thrown anywhere)

I if I survive considering how dumbass I am there will be surely a 2 which will say:

2) If I survive euthanize me no matter what, it's my biggest wish.

 

[WeslieZX]

That's a nice message to leave in your note. I wasn't planning to leave a note because I know the people that care about me will be devastated either way and I don't think anything I say would really mean much. But your note makes me reconsider.

 

[everydayiloveyou]

1) Request for natural burial
2) Information, paperwork and passwords for my insurance, accounts, and other financial affairs
3) Thank yous to my family. I won't discuss anything sad or depressing. The note is not for me, it will be for my family.


I'll post all of my art online on a queue. this part will be for me. The fandom I make art for is pretty dead these days, my posts only get a couple likes. But Ill post them anyways because drawing those pictures made me happy. Maybe someone will stumble upon them and feel happy too.

I won't leave anything angry or blaming. No one will care anyways and I want to leave free. I thought about messaging my old friends from elementary and just saying thank you for the memories and good luck, but I don't think I'll end up doing it, I think it'll be weird. Most of them deleted the social media that they added me on anyways.

 

[GOODHI]

Thank you, I think that's a good idea because maybe you don't want them to fail into depression or guilt thinking it's there fault or that they could have done something it will be hard for them to move on. This can clear it up for them I will go more in depth with my note those where just points.

That's a nice message to leave in your note. I wasn't planning to leave a note because I know the people that care about me will be devastated either way and I don't think anything I say would really mean much. But your note makes me reconside

 

[roping]

id give orders not to resuscitate and consent to euthanize me if i survive with brain damage or something and id leave it at that, i dont really see much value in notes

 

[motyxia]

If I made any notes it'd probably just be thank you letters to my favourite musicians even though they'll never read it

 

[YAYorNAY]

cremate me and burn every photo of me as well.
bye!

ps. Damn you all to hell for forcing me to live with the pain!

 

[Pluto]

I'm attempting to leave my possessions and superannuation to my closest friends, rather than have everything go to my toxic parents by default. Will be drawing up a legal will with a lawyer, but it can be challenged and I wouldn't want a legal shitfight. Also don't want my friends to be harassed by my biological family or accused of pushing me over the edge for their benefit (which would be a false allegation anyway). So the note has to explain that it's no one's fault, etc., whatever BS minimisation of the situation. There's a separate document with account passwords, etc. (quite lengthy in order to include everything).

Other than that, I would have preferred not to do a note. The ones who bothered being close to me are well aware of my situation, while others wouldn't care either way.

 

[luten]

short and sweet

 

[BeansOfRequirement]

1. Reduce their guilt by emphasizing that it's a personal decision and that this is what I want.
2. Some thanks/love you (normie garbage).
3. Underline that it's not impulsive.
4. Best wishes.
5. Mention that I'm going to die anyway (lol).

 

[haibiantou]

I think mine will be To everyone I love you all, have forgiven everyone and I hope you pray for me, forgive me and do righteous deeds in my name Don't forget me or these things years from now please. No one made me do it. It wasn't anyone's fault. Please don't blame yourself. I was going to do it no matter what. You couldn't stop it or change it no matter what. I love you all

Those are beautiful words

If possible I'd rather make it look like an accident and not leave a note because I think that would be easier for my family and friends to come to terms with. I would rather them think that I was an idiot who walked to close to the edge of a cliff than really know that I wanted to die. But if that is not feasible I would just want to write to absolve them of all guilt and leave them any practical details they need to sort things out after my passing.

 

[ollo]

" I, myself is only responsible for my decision and actions. No one is to be blamed or held accountable for my actions. No one has helped me in my actions. All I wanted was Peace. "

 

[FuneralCry]

I plan to write a note to close family members. It will act as closure and it will mean they are not left with unanswered questions. I will say things like 'there is nothing you could have done' and 'now I am at peace'. I will tell them why I have done this and try to give them some understanding.

 

[Aeathelina]

That i'm sorry for living this long and for my body to be donated or discarded.

 

[Hyd999]

I'm attempting to leave my possessions and superannuation to my closest friends, rather than have everything go to my toxic parents by default. Will be drawing up a legal will with a lawyer, but it can be challenged and I wouldn't want a legal shitfight. Also don't want my friends to be harassed by my biological family or accused of pushing me over the edge for their benefit (which would be a false allegation anyway). So the note has to explain that it's no one's fault, etc., whatever BS minimisation of the situation. There's a separate document with account passwords, etc. (quite lengthy in order to include everything).

Other than that, I would have preferred not to do a note. The ones who bothered being close to me are well aware of my situation, while others wouldn't care either way.

I recently did a will and learned you can put in a clause where a specific family member can NOT fight or dispute it. I put one in for each toxic family members!

 

[VKVK]

Something something about how it was the only way forward and for my parents not to blame themselves too much. It's mostly their fault I grew up so fucked up, but I still don't want to burden them with this, finding my body is bad enough.