What is more intimate: sex or kissing?

[samhelloall9]

I voted sex. I mean, I've watched a long porno before, where it spent most of the time just kissing and building up to it...so i feel kissing get's pretty stale. Where as, penetration...now that's real connection right there, I feel. But I am a virgin. Still, I stand by my vote :)

 

[samhelloall9]

I would also add that the whole point of kissing is to lead to sex, the main prize. Nothing better as a man than thrusting, at mixing up speeds, into a woman I love, find attractive or at least am having a casual with. Mmm

 

[CantGoOn]

Kissing is more intimate imo, I don't like any contact cause I'm unattractive and that kills the fun. I don't want anyone being that close.

 

[Pointlessabyss]

Wish there was a dislike on some comments.. but kissing for me! Sex acts can get warped into fantasies etc.
But kissing can be done anywhere and is more passionate to me.

That's Ofcourse providing the other person isn't trying to shove their tongue down your throat or something stupid.

Do some people on here just think about sex with these threads ! Can genuinely say I have lost all interest!

 

[samhelloall9]

Hi,
I am asking myself what is more intimate: sex or kissing.
So I made a poll which is obviously anonymous and does not show your username.
If these kinds of threads are not allowed, sorry I will remove it.

Still there is kissing involved in sex. Unless it's just from behind so you're nowhere near each other's faces or otherwise.
Besides, the dopamine rush from the orgasm makes just kidding alone..to me...feel like a cruel tease. As a man, gosh I love thrusting. Consensual, mutually pleasurable, thrusting.
I salute me :)

 

[QueenEtna]

I find cuddling more intimate vwv

 

[Idorus]

I feel like I can't breathe while kissing and it just feels boring/like a drag.

I totally agree this is true in 99% of the cases.
BUT... one day I suddenly got a kiss match, and I can tell ya … it was more sexual/sensual than I ever experienced anything in that area. It was kissing for hoursss.. deep kissing with our entire bodies (clothes on, no hands on intimate parts), it was a physical (tongue) blending, merging, melting together of the very highest order (like getting belly orgasm the entire time). It woke up the poet in me after and I was inspired to let the world know of its heavenly existence. It wasn't a fluke cause we repeated this hourssss long dressed kissing (with sipping wine and inhaling smoke pauses) with the same luscious intensity. This all happened 10 years ago but never found a match again.

For the rest, seks is not my thing (anymore) and I stopped doing it to make the other party happy. In the best case it would be a chance hit. No good? Goodbye. Routine seks is a real spectre to me.

 

[worldexploder]

I liked both equally when I was with someone.

 

[BlackDragonof1989]

I don't know personally, I've not had sex and I've barely kissed a girl who wasn't my mother, though I've had lots of online "relationships" and flings as well. I almost had the chance to lose my virginity this year but I freaked out a bit. It happened before though I'm not sure as it wasn't an explicit offer. A little disappointing but I think it's more common than it used to be in today's world, lots of porn too though nearing 30 my sex drive is slowing down a little.

 

[longingforrelease]

kissing is indeed intimate. But I have a few kinks that are definitely more intimate that kissing!

 

[Miss clefable]

Cuddles

 

[Trashcan]

Sex

 

[OkTotti]

Prostitutes don't let customers kiss them while ****ing.
They'd have to remove their cigarette for that.

Plenty of prostitutes kiss, you just need to see the ones that advertise as GFE. Prostitutes not kissing customers is from Pretty Woman and might been the standard in the 80s. Nowadays it is much different.

 

[Gainax]

Prostitutes have many clients per day...who, in his right mind, would even consider kissing them?

Any one who think sex is not the most intimate act is trying to justify why they cheat on their partners.

 

[Fyrinne]

¿Porque no las dos?

Sex is definitely plenty intimate if you're doing it right. That sort of... one-ness... with someone. Getting in their head, playing, laughing, exploring one another. Of course that's all intimate.

Still, there are those moments when all you want to do is stroke someone's face, and look deep into their eyes. To slowly, carefully move closer... To brush their lips with yours... To feel their breath against your face for a moment... And then to sink into them and feel your lips against theirs and the world fall away.

Not to say I couldn't write about sex that way, but sex is a different kind of intimacy, it's not quite a singular moment, but lots of little ones all rolled together.

 

[Smilla]

Plenty of prostitutes kiss, you just need to see the ones that advertise as GFE. Prostitutes not kissing customers is from Pretty Woman and might been the standard in the 80s. Nowadays it is much different.

How do you know this?

 

[Jen Erik]

I'm a (mostly) gay guy. For me neither is more intimate than the other.

If I were to gauge by what I've encountered when interacting with other guys it's that kissing is considered more intimate.

 

[dumbfarang]

Cuddles

definitely. cuddles and kissing beats sex all day

 

[Final Escape]

Never been with a prostitute, only with my BF so I wouldn't know but I read that a lot of them don't like being kissed

I don't like to kiss unless there's chemistry lol!

 

[iHeartRockArt]

Probably kissing, but there's different types of "sex"....so this could open a whole 'nother can of worms. So I'll leave it at kissing. Lol

 

[Vegrau]

Kiss. Because I actually put my desire into doing it.

 

[LostGirl]

Kiss definitely.

 

[Thoughtforms]

Kissing someone I like is my favourite thing ever I crave kissing, I don't crave sex much.
It's been 6 weeks since we last kissed heartbroken

 

[Help_Me]

Kissing of course. Most of the people now having sex even if they don't know each other, there is nothing special about that. Kissing is another thing. This is more attractive thing for me I really have to deserve, a nice challenge with a great reward..

 

[Severen]

Sex, definitely.

 

[Severen]

I don't like to kiss unless there's chemistry lol!

Of course, prostitutes are human beings too.

 

[Toxic Person]

Kissing! My last kiss was yesterday and it was very wunderful tbh

 

[Norest4thewicked]

When you have that deep connection with someone, just being with them is enough. I miss it so much