Yeah, therapists always assume you are making things up, lol.
hes literally orange too
therapists are notorious gaslighters. it's literally been proven the only benefit of therapy is when a client develops a close, friend-like connection with them and the sole experience of having a positive human relationship where they feel listened to is enough to improve mental health conditions. "friend-like" of course. and incredibly predatory once you unpack the reality that it's an artificial connection held together by money and constantly on a tightrope of nonconsensual psych ward admission. they can't bank off your hope of fixing yourself if they don't present you with the laziest fantasy reality where your problems don't exist, simply because they said so
And therapists only talk to people because they earn money from it, that doesn't seem like it would help me, because I want a real connection that talks to me and helps me without money and stuff like friends, it has nothing to do with money with therapists, it just... Doesn't feel right, if you know what I mean.hes literally orange too
therapists are notorious gaslighters. it's literally been proven the only benefit of therapy is when a client develops a close, friend-like connection with them and the sole experience of having a positive human relationship where they feel listened to is enough to improve mental health conditions. "friend-like" of course. and incredibly predatory once you unpack the reality that it's an artificial connection held together by money and constantly on a tightrope of nonconsensual psych ward admission. they can't bank off your hope of fixing yourself if they don't present you with the laziest fantasy reality where your problems don't exist, simply because they said so
Huh, thats crazy because I really feel like I havent owned an acc here for that long lol. Its actually terrible though, I have a bad relationship with food already so that makes it even worse. I mainly cope by drinking my calories.
Same boat (?). Guy I've been talking to for these last couple months is 13 yrs older than me. Context : we've been friends for a couple years now, but recently been talking as more than friends. But the thought of him doing anything with someone else before me is.... Such a gross thought that makes me wanna slit my wrists tbh. But realistically he has cuz I mean. Shit! I was a baby when he was entering highschool. Sorry for the rambling
mine is 15 years apart. same situation, friends for a few years then it mistakenly turned into something more. as much as it bothered me i'm a curious person. i used to pry and ask about his ex and stuff like that. probably a form of self harm. i'm glad someone else shares my illogical thinking lol.
Really eloquent description of psychotherapy. Do you have a source for your claim about the only benefit of therapy being the friend-like connection? It sounds pretty damninghes literally orange too
therapists are notorious gaslighters. it's literally been proven the only benefit of therapy is when a client develops a close, friend-like connection with them and the sole experience of having a positive human relationship where they feel listened to is enough to improve mental health conditions. "friend-like" of course. and incredibly predatory once you unpack the reality that it's an artificial connection held together by money and constantly on a tightrope of nonconsensual psych ward admission. they can't bank off your hope of fixing yourself if they don't present you with the laziest fantasy reality where your problems don't exist, simply because they said so
and having to brush your teeth, omg I hate this! And having to shower, sleep/wakeup, cleaning and nothing stays clean, having to feed yourself which then creates a mess to clean up
I knowww, there's something to do every single day and I'm sick of it. I was not built for this life.
i'm sorry to hear this about your cat. as someone who loves my cat more than anything i understand and this isn't silly at all. i think you should take your cat with you, this way he'll learn to bond with you more, maybe youll be the next love of his life just like you love him.
imagine a family member that blasts music on speakers in the yard every day, 8 hours a day & multiple blasting their political propaganda in any space in the house
i try to act like theyre not doing it with bad intentions. like im hoping theyre not making the choice to leave me out, especially because one of them is my brother. but i think thats the issue itself, my brother is closer with these guys and i think they kind of forget about me because of that.thats not unserious at all
i can't believe people would do that
