• Hey Guest,

    We wanted to share a quick update with the community.

    Our public expense ledger is now live, allowing anyone to see how donations are used to support the ongoing operation of the site.

    👉 View the ledger here

    Over the past year, increased regulatory pressure in multiple regions like UK OFCOM and Australia's eSafety has led to higher operational costs, including infrastructure, security, and the need to work with more specialized service providers to keep the site online and stable.

    If you value the community and would like to help support its continued operation, donations are greatly appreciated. If you wish to donate via Bank Transfer or other options, please open a ticket.

    Donate via cryptocurrency:

    Bitcoin (BTC):
    Ethereum (ETH):
    Monero (XMR):
CGN83

CGN83

Member
Jan 1, 2026
20
I'm just curious, why do so many people post saying they're nervous about SN being seized by UK customs?

It'll trigger a welfare check, I get that, but a welfare check is nothing to be worried about in the UK knowing that mental health services are more than happy to watch people CTB.

I even told them my plans and their response was "You clearly have capacity and if that's what you intend to do we cannot stop you"

A welfare check isn't anything to worry about, is there another reason people get scared?
 
P

persepexa

Experienced
Feb 7, 2025
247
I'm just curious, why do so many people post saying they're nervous about SN being seized by UK customs?

It'll trigger a welfare check, I get that, but a welfare check is nothing to be worried about in the UK knowing that mental health services are more than happy to watch people CTB.

I even told them my plans and their response was "You clearly have capacity and if that's what you intend to do we cannot stop you"

A welfare check isn't anything to worry about, is there another reason people get scared?
Most people have never had contact with the police or mental health services so it seems quite scary. They don't know what's likely to happen or what to do in those situations to protect themselves. Me personally I've been to prison and sectioned and am currently serving a suspended sentence so there's an increased risk for me of them activating my sentence, extending my suspended sentence, or putting me back in hospital. Also if someone came to their home to do a welfare check there is a possibility that anyone they are living with could see and it could raise uncomfortable questions, especially if they are living with family members. In my experience I have also been told it's okay to CTB but it depends on the context. Most people in this day and age care more about protecting themselves so if they are someone who is responsible for your welfare and you CTB it reflects badly on them. In prison I was very open about wanting to CTB and was repeatedly told to wait until I was released.
 
  • Like
Reactions: Forveleth and apooka