This site use to be the answer

[gracefulexit]

This site use to be the real deal now it's nothing but a dark Facebook. If you don't want to die then why are you here? Because you're ugly and nobody likes you?! Get real! Ugh, I hate people and this world. Colorado here

 

[91Days]

Don't forget this isn't just a site for suicidal people. People can be affected by certain things more than others.

 

[again_noidea]

Relax, life is change, unending change.

And by the way, you can find all the answers in the archive and in the wiki.

 

[Originaldon]

Yeah the difference in last year to this year is massive. Not what it used to be.

 

[Circles]

Suicide is not a race dude. Every one here is at a different pace and path in life. It's called survival instinct, something that's hardwired into us and is over billions of years old and it's fucking hard to find the courage to get past it. Plus don't minimize how being ugly or how loneliness can affect someone cause it can cause a lot of pain especially since we're such a social species. You say this is like Facebook but atleast here you can talk about suicide without being censored.

 

[91Days]

Yeah the difference in last year to this year is massive. Not what it used to be.

That's because this is a suicide site you can't expect people to stay here and waste their time on this site when the reason they came here is to commit suicide.

 

[Originaldon]

That's because this is a suicide site you can't expect people to stay here and waste their time on this site when the reason they came here is to commit suicide.

No idea what you're talking about to be honest. The whole atmosphere and vibe of this site is completely different now than it was for years before.

 

[fox_wannabe]

That's because this is a suicide site you can't expect people to stay here and waste their time on this site when the reason they came here is to commit suicide.

Funny how only newer posters complain about it...








Do not bump that thread people.

 

[91Days]

No idea what you're talking about to be honest. The whole atmosphere and vibe of this site is completely different now than it was for years before.

Exactly that's because people who were originally here years before committed suicide

 

[Conflict3d]

Seems like it

 

[Dot]

"Site used to be answer"

Answer to what...

 

[Sprite_Geist]

This community is not just for people who want to die, but also for anyone who is having general suicidal thoughts and any mental health issues as well. However not everybody who thinks about suicide actually wishes to go through with the act; though this does not make it any less serious. There may be users on this website who have no one to talk to, so instead they arrive here.

A "dark" Facebook? How so? Facebook itself is already awful. Like any social media platform it is rife with virtue signalling and bullying. From a certain perspective Sanctioned Suicide is actually the opposite of darkness - the light in a gloomy tunnel - given that users here can talk about how they are feeling without the fear of being ostracized by most. What would your vision of an ideal Sanctioned Suicide community be then? Just remove anybody who does not wish to die right at this instant?

Also you underestimate the effects that beauty standards, social rejection and unrequited love can have on a human being. Lacking friends or romance is not an issue for me, and it seems like this is true for you as well, but it does not mean these reasons are invalid. Everybody is affected by different behaviours, and everybody has their own pain threshold. In a lot of instances pain is what fuels someones desire to end their own life.

If we are going to start gatekeeping what constitutes a "good" reason to die then we are no better than those who are against suicide completely.

 

[odradek]

Wow OP this is a super useful and fascinating post you have here. I have thoughts.

This site use to be the real deal now it's nothing but a dark Facebook.

The real deal huh? Golly gee what has happened? Please elaborate if you're able. So many unanswered questions posed in this statement alone I think you might be contributing to the problem.

Facebook is the "dark" Facebook BTW. Have you ever used that site? It's probably responsible for way more deaths of people who didn't want to die than this site has helped those who do.

If you don't want to die then why are you here?

Why are you here? If this site "used be the answer" haven't you already found yours? If no, then I repeat the first question.

Because you're ugly and nobody likes you?! Get real! Ugh, I hate people and this world.

Ouch, this one hurts a bit and is kinda mean. Seems like something you might relate to based on your general attitude in this fascinating post.

Colorado here

Now here is the most interesting part of the thread to me. Where are you going with this? Is this an invitation? Why would anyone want to visit after this charming post? Or is this your name? Are you just stating where you are? I checked urban dictionary to see if this was a thing and it doesn't seem to be. If you do anything at all I think you owe it to all of us to clarify this at least. I might die of curiosity so I guess you'd be doing me a favour if you don't.

 

[xLosthopex]

Imagine being offended that other people aren't killing themselves fast enough lol

 

[LastLoveLetter]

It is rather dismissive and insensitive to tell those who are lonely and ostracised as a result of ugliness or any other issue to "get real." Systemic inequalities, rejection, discrimination and isolation are all very real, very serious and very damaging difficulties to contend with.

It is utterly callous and cruel to suggest that people "hurry up and die." You have been a member since 2019, so surely you understand that there are a myriad of reasons why rushing to die may not be possible, practical or desirable. How would you feel if someone told you to "hurry up" (not suggesting that you should or that I would condone members saying this to anyone here)?

Suicidality itself exists on a spectrum, and reasons for wanting to die vary dramatically. It is not a competition. What is devastating for one person might not be for another, and that is fine, but we should all still respect one another's struggles and suffering.

While this is a suicide forum, we have recovery and offtopic sections too. It is a diverse community catering to individuals navigating various stages in their lives and across the entire spectrum of suicidality. And that is how it should be - a welcoming, supportive and empathetic space for everyone struggling with suicidal thoughts in their lives, whether they intend to take their lives tomorrow, many years in the future or even aspire to continue living instead.

We are a pro-choice community that supports members making informed decisions about their own lives and ultimately their own deaths, not a pro-death mob that encourages everyone here to die as swiftly as possible. We are here to provide information and support, and respect each member's right to utilise these resources in a way that suits their situation and needs.

 

[Dot]

Not been on site for long but have found that when new are absorbing method info. When know what was looking for attention then drawn to other posts which more emotional.

Can't talk for vibe prior as not been on forum long however have seen multipe ctb posts of late so still happening. User turnover will change vibe.


" I don't care about the people taking thier time I hate the people here to play fucking word games and pretending they want to die . Stfu and hurry up and die"

So are death voyeur then. No need for anyone to prove are suicidal enough to participate.

 

[forgotten15]

Considering what you wrote, the only one that shouldn't be here is you. We ask you the same thing: Why are you here if the way the forum evolved does not appeal to you?
And no, no one is hurt by your nasty remark about ugly and unliked people, because words from people like you = 0
Have a good day and try to get rid of your frustrations until next time you log on here

 

[BeansOfRequirement]

Based..?

 

[MeltedJello]

Maybe find another site for a better answer?

 

[nerve]

Everybody ends up here at different points in their journey.

 

[BottomlessPit]

I read some old posts from a few years ago, and the interesting thing is that even back then people were complaining about the "good old times" of this forum being gone, which indicates how subjective this is.
Many people you knew and liked are gone, and this loss alone can make the forum seem like it's worse than before. But that is a very personal assessment, and doesn't have to correspond with the reality of this forum.

Or maybe you miss the old times because back then people killed themselves en masse with SN, with multiple goodbye threads being posted in a single day (or so I was told, I wasn't around at that time). @Dot called you a death voyeur, which would indeed be a very fitting description in that case.

 

[Dot]

I read some old posts from a few years ago, and the interesting thing is that even back then people were complaining about the "good old times" of this forum being gone, which indicates how subjective this is.
Many people you knew and liked are gone, and this loss alone can make the forum seem like it's worse than before. But that is a very personal assessment, and doesn't have to correspond with the reality of this forum.

Or maybe you miss the old times because back then people killed themselves en masse with SN, with multiple goodbye threads being posted in a single day (or so I was told, I wasn't around at that time). That would be a bit weird, ngl. @Dot called you a death voyeur, which would indeed be a very fitting description.

OP put up different post saying whole world is fake so probs feels that users on forum are fake also if evidence of cbt is less than before.

 

[odradek]

Aaand they're offline. Not a very graceful exit, how ironic...

 

[xLosthopex]

"Hurry up and die" What's it to you how soon I decide to ctb? Mind your damn business

 

[Angst Filled Fuck Up]

Omg I can't believe some of the people that are just allowed to stay on this site. Like this is horrendous stuff. Other forums hand out bans for bumping an old topic. This person wishes everyone a speedy death and is just allowed to stick around.

 

[Superdeterminist]

People are allowed to complain about the problems in their lives. It's these very problems which pile up and pressure people into ctb. You might think something like appearance is trivial, but not everyone agrees.

 

[arainydancer]

It's fine. I gotta admit I'm quite self centered when I'm suicidal, but all of that won't last very long!

 

[gracefulexit]

I'm not rushing anyone to ctb. You people that analyzed my post to rush people to ctb are the problem. I've been here 2 years so me rushing people to ctb doesn't make sense. I hate you people.

 

[Pure]

If you don't want to die then why are you here?

SS offers a discussion of mental illness that you won't find anywhere on the non-dark web. Someone doesn't necessarily need to be suicidal to fit in.

 

[Dot]

I'm not rushing anyone to ctb. You people that analyzed my post to rush people to ctb are the problem. I've been here 2 years so me rushing people to ctb doesn't make sense. I hate you people.

Plenty people on forum still want to ctb...