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Starfall

Starfall

Dreamer
Sep 24, 2024
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Is it more important to make everything go according to plan, or to just CTB? I often fantasize about the "perfect" plan, and try to follow it, but something typically goes wrong, and I dont get to even try. My actual attempts were more panicked, and that may be where it went wrong. So is it better to plan and hope I can act, or rush and risk something going wrong?
 
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somebodyfromeast

somebodyfromeast

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Sep 1, 2025
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I think the truth is somewhere in the middle. We can't plan everything perfectly - there's always going to be something that doesn't go as planned. We also can't rely entirely on impulsiveness - the risk of a failed attempt is too high.
So I think we need a good plan and a bit of impulsiveness. We just need to accept that things won't always go as planned. And we need a little bit of impulsiveness to get the necessary "push" and the ability to improvise :)
 
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