Should I slow down?

[PinkSakura]

So I ordered SN and I was planning to CTB as soon as it arrives, however I started overthinking. If I die my family will get all my possessions and control whatever happens after my death, I hate my family I don't want them to have control over anything of mine.

I called a wills helpline and asked how much a will is (because I want to control what happens after I die) and the price is way too much for me right now. I'm currently unemployed, ordering SN was already hard on my pocket lol.

Should I says F it and continue my plan? Or wait until I can afford a will?

 

[hʚll]

i don't know the answer to that. it depends on how you feel. if the pain is too much and you can't wait anymore, then you do it. i hate family too but don't care what they do with my stuff because those weren't really mine anyway...

wish you peace

 

[Alwaysbadtime]

What kinds of stuff do you have? You say you don't have much money. I don't understand why you would bother with a legal will with no money. Just write/type up one that states where you want your possessions to go. Most likely a lot of your stuff will just get donated to a thrift store or thrown out.

 

[xBrialesana]

I think if slowing down even feels like an option for you, the answer should generally be yes..

I mean this with love. I don't know how else to phrase it.

 

[PinkSakura]

What kinds of stuff do you have? You say you don't have much money. I don't understand why you would bother with a legal will with no money. Just write/type up one that states where you want your possessions to go. Most likely a lot of your stuff will just get donated to a thrift store or thrown out.

Just clothes phone laptop, I just really don't want them to get anything of mine
Thanks for your answers I'll CTB later than I had first planned

 

[xBrialesana]

Just clothes phone laptop, I just really don't want them to get anything of mine
Thanks for your answers I'll CTB later than I had first planned

Literally the only reason I haven't CTB since my date in literally over a year is I don't have access to where my old shit is, and I refuse for my stuff to be gone through. Too much pride dead or not lol.

If holding off and finding some form of comfort in life is possible, look for that and do it. You've placed your order, you have your safety.

 

[Bullit]

You can always give your stuff away before ya ctb! But I'm all in favor of thinking things through, taking your time.

 

[PinkSakura]

Literally the only reason I haven't CTB since my date in literally over a year is I don't have access to where my old shit is, and I refuse for my stuff to be gone through. Too much pride dead or not lol.

If holding off and finding some form of comfort in life is possible, look for that and do it. You've placed your order, you have your safety.

Thanks thanks

 

[slyna]

How could it possibly bother you when you are dead?

 

[PinkSakura]

How could it possibly bother you when you are dead?

Because my hate for my family is too strong, I don't want them to have anything to remember me by, no clothes nothing. The thought of being dead and still not being able to escape my family really bothers me. Sorry I don't know how to properly explain my feelings

 

[This_sux ✓]

If something belongs to you 100%, you're allowed to hide or destroy that thing without consequences. Charity is also an option.