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applepie

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Aug 10, 2026
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Hello,
I need some outside opinion whether or not to include the short story Ex Oblivione by H.P. Lovecraft in my goodbye letter. It's very short (about 1 page), here's a link: https://www.hplovecraft.com/writings/texts/fiction/eo.aspx

I would of course write the normal goodbye letter, but this short story is something that really resonates with me and I always kinda viewed it as a goodbye letter in itself.
However, I am afraid that I am being way too sentimental/dramatic and putting way too much personal interpretation, and while it offers me a lot of comfort, it would not be helpful/understandable for my family.

I know this is kinda stupid, but I would just like to know what is your impression of the short story; or if you think something like this would be okay to include as part of the goodbye letter.

I would be very grateful for any response :)
 
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maggineko

Holding on 'till May
Aug 10, 2026
22
It's your goodbye letter, and you get to decide what to put in it 🤗 Please don't feel overdramatic or overly sentimental for something that's meant to be your last words. If the short story is something you'd like to include as a way to express yourself in a way that feels most like you, go for it! If you want, just leave a short explanation in the letter regarding the story so readers will understand what it means to you and what you want it to mean to them ♡ That said, you don't need to justify what comforts you.

Best of luck and I wish you the sweetest comforts of life ♡
 
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Fate calls to us all
Dec 21, 2025
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I say go for it. If it means this much to you, why not include it? This is your last chance to communicate. It should be something meaningful to you.
 
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