Saying goodbye

[Deltawaves74]

Does anyone feel sad that they cannot say a real goodbye to those they care about. It would be my last wish but can't happen as no one I care about would let it happen. So would be unfair on them

 

[virginiawoolf86]

I definitely do. I just want to see them and say goodbye one last time before I go. I don't want to be kept here against my will. So I know that saying that is not an option.

 

[AutoTap]

Ye Virginiawoolf said it quite well. I'm in that same boat

 

[yeahwellso]

No, not really. I don't really care.

 

[sadworld]

Oh yeah... It would be cool if everyone could understand us and accept our decision so that we don't have to die alone...

 

[justsad&done]

Yes! It makes me very sad. It makes me sad because my reason for wanting to ctb is my own unrelenting, unbearable sadness. And I know by doing so, I will make others sad. And then i get even more sad when I think about not being able to say goodbye. I'm just a sad mess.

 

[Deltawaves74]

I don't get it people say they see my pain and yet they won't give me their blessing. It's like we know u have had years of this we see your agony but we can't agree with your decision. Why isn't it simple sure I wouldn't want someone I care for to die but to watch them suffer is wrong.

 

[justsad&done]

I don't get it people say they see my pain and yet they won't give me their blessing. It's like we know u have had years of this we see your agony but we can't agree with your decision. Why isn't it simple sure I wouldn't want someone I care for to die but to watch them suffer is wrong.

I'm sorry for your pain and suffering, I really am.
For me, it's like the people around me think I'm choosing to feel this way. And if I just decided to move on and be happy, everything would be okay.

 

[WornOutLife]

I wish suicide/death stopped being a taboo for normal people and we could talk about CTB and say our goodbyes freely.

 

[Deltawaves74]

I'm sorry for your pain and suffering, I really am.
For me, it's like the people around me think I'm choosing to feel this way. And if I just decided to move on and be happy, everything would be okay.

I'm sorry for your pain and suffering, I really am.
For me, it's like the people around me think I'm choosing to feel this way. And if I just decided to move on and be happy, everything would be okay.

I know there are so many factors and yeh some people do find a way which is great for them but not everyone can

 

[symphonyofthenight]

I wish I could tell everyone good-bye and assure them it's not their fault. It's just me, fucking everything up again. That they shouldn't feel bad. Not being able to tell others is incredibly lonely to me, because I know so many are going to be angry at themselves for "not stopping me".

 

[justsad&done]

I wish I could tell everyone good-bye and assure them it's not their fault. It's just me, fucking everything up again. That they shouldn't feel bad. Not being able to tell others is incredibly lonely to me, because I know so many are going to be angry at themselves for "not stopping me".

It's because you are such a good and kind person and you care about others. But you shouldn't have to suffer so much pain for anyone.

 

[greyhound]

I've basically told my parents, even said within the next year.

I think they just sort of imagine I'm just depressed and not completely serious. I think as long as you don't say you have a concrete plan on such and such date, you can sort of say goodbye ahead of time to certain people.

 

[pls.deleteallmypost]

Ojalá el suicidio / muerte dejara de ser un tabú para la gente normal y pudiéramos hablar de CTB y despedirnos libremente.

Omg that would be so less painful