People that call suicide "selfish" are the selfish ones.

[vermin]

I never asked to be born, to exist, but that was forced upon me. I never asked to go to school and be bullied for being the wierd kid that kept to himself and liked anime but that was forced upon me. I never wanted to participate in this hellhole called society but i was constantly pressured to "go outside and make friends and stop being a loser". I never wanted to get a job that i hate and be surrounded by coworkers i hate but that was forced upon me by my parents, apparently none of that is selfish but the second all this gets too much for me and i cant take it anymore im suddenly the selfish one for wanting to make it all end. Yeah fuck that.

 

[cme-dme]

It's a bit hypocritical isn't it? Nobody is brought into this world by choice but if you want to leave said world suddenly that's a bad thing? Society is full of hypocritical things like that.

 

[vermin]

It's a bit hypocritical isn't it? Nobody is brought into this world by choice but if you want to leave said world suddenly that's a bad thing? Society is full of hypocritical things like that.

I remember when my father told me about a story in which one of his friends daughter killed herself for "no reason" and called her selfish, he told me this when i was 14 and even then i knew what he was saying was stupid.

 

[cme-dme]

I remember when my father told me about a story in which one of his friends daughter killed herself for "no reason" and called her selfish, he told me this when i was 14 and even then i knew what he was saying was stupid.

When/If I kill myself, I will be sure to put my my note "Just felt like killin' myself. Just feeling selfish is all :) No other reason for it"

 

[vermin]

When/If I kill myself, I will be sure to put my my note "Just felt like killin' myself. Just feeling selfish is all :) No other reason for it"

My entire suicide note is just gonna be
"why did you do it, why on earth would you kill yourself"

"dunno, felt like it lol"

 

[FuneralCry]

I understand, I personally see so much cruelty in how suffering is seen as to force and prolong no matter what with no acceptance towards the personal choice to not exist, even know this existence was imposed, I find it so tragic how this existence was imposed at all that just causes suffering all for the sake of it and problems there were never a need for. I also wish I never existed, I wish I was never burdened with this cruel, futile existence, non-existence really is all I hope for, I wish to just cease existing in peace and never suffer ever again.

 

[StrawberryRed]

Its hard to feel sorry for you when your profile picture is of a school shooter that killed 27 people. Most of which were first graders.
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sandy_Hook_Elementary_School_shooting
Is this allowed? Should this fall under a NSFW profile picture and get you banned? You seem to have an affinity for a mass murder and you're family was right to call you a loser. Trying to be edgy or genuinely a fan ur just fucking pathetic man.

 

[belowaveragefish]

Interesting to hear all of this
For me, I take pride in the fact that it's a decision for myself. My goal is to strike a blow for freedom in the midst of life's oppression, and this would be the ultimate way to beat the system.

 

[bananaolympus]

I think suicide is neutral it can be selfish in some circumstances but the ones they say is selfish because it makes your family and friends grieve is definitely not selfish imo

 

[bipolar22]

People who say things like that often don't believe in it.
Same way they call it 'the easy way out' , 'suicide is for cowards' and all that. Just manipulation tactics Imo. Some go a step further if that doesn't work and say things like 'if you do it ill do it too'. I know by now not to take these gospels serious.

 

[slightoverlooked]

my friends never said this to me but my ex bestfriend did (i hate her). my mom also never said this. she just said "what about me? im gonna be so sad. i carried you for 9 months and raised you to my best ability. i cant live without you."
and i cant be mad at her. how can i be mad at a mother for loving her child?
its not selfish but we do leave ppl behind. if we dont care then thats that. but i guess i have to acknowledge that my death will have an impact. probably a negative one. and it might even cause disaster for my friends and family. idk

 

[moya117]

Its hard to feel sorry for you when your profile picture is of a school shooter that killed 27 people. Most of which were first graders.
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sandy_Hook_Elementary_School_shooting
Is this allowed? Should this fall under a NSFW profile picture and get you banned? You seem to have an affinity for a mass murder and you're family was right to call you a loser. Trying to be edgy or genuinely a fan ur just fucking pathetic man.

i take my like back seeing your post... but isn't that a little bit harsh?

 

[dontletthembribeyou]

it's so frustrating lol they expect me to suffer indefinitely just so they won't have to feel a little bit sad for a few months

 

[JesiBel]

It is true that there is nothing more selfish than forcing someone to continue in this world just because you contradict their beliefs or because they will be sad if you are no longer here.

They basically expect you to live at all costs, suffer in silence, and not complain. As long as you're here, nothing else matters to them. Just... don't be 'too dramatic and weak', because they'll get upset. It's not like they care about helping either. And the evil and inconsiderate person ends up being oneself.

If your existence is miserable, it doesn't matter to them... because at least you're alive. They see death as something evil, and it's the only thing we're guaranteed from the moment we're born.

 

[amyuwu]

Its hard to feel sorry for you when your profile picture is of a school shooter that killed 27 people. Most of which were first graders.
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sandy_Hook_Elementary_School_shooting
Is this allowed? Should this fall under a NSFW profile picture and get you banned? You seem to have an affinity for a mass murder and you're family was right to call you a loser. Trying to be edgy or genuinely a fan ur just fucking pathetic man.

Bruhhhh it's literally pfp