People are a disappointment

[LittleMagician]

Found out my boyfriend is still friends with a guy who openly disrespected me unprompted because I'm a woman saying I was bad news, a pick me, that I would "ruin him" and random fucking racist comments just because he wasnt happy with me and I guess he was jealous because he openly stated he was an incel and would be a virgin until he was 30…

I guess our relationship is successfully ruined because of his friends jealousy :]

 

[humantool]

Welcome to the real world

 

[LittleMagician]

Welcome to the real world

I hate this world so much, I wish I could burn every inch of it to the ground

 

[catfriend]

eww! it speaks volumes about your boyfriend, if he's willing to associate with people like that... like, what are STANDARDS?

 

[Britney Spears]

People on the outside are just rats programmed to live, reproduce, and die, clones all the same. Anything they don't understand and is out of the ordinary (invisible illnesses) is condemned. Oh, I'd step on a pro-life rat.

 

[ALonelyFreak]

Fuckin relatable

 

[WrathfulGloom32]

More reasons for why I'm a misanthrope, everyone treats the ones around them like they are toys.

"Welcome to the real world" someone said here; I agree those people haven't been welcomed to the real world, we should place them upside down and saw them like they used to do, stone them, oubliette them, hang them in masses, force them to eat corpses or starve and get eaten by maggots and rats in a dungeon placed in fuck nowhere. Fuck the morals , these people don't change, they don't care to change, we should remind them what happens when you breach the bare minimum respect and "look out for yourself" , don't make me fucking laugh.

These people treat life as it's a game, I talk about breaching the bare minimum respect, those people are actually thinking like this most likely, seeing everything as just another thing to exploit in real life as it were a video game, what disgusting and insignificant gnats they are.

 

[Britney Spears]

People disgust me. Since I've been suffering from my illness, and everyone has their own problems, you realize the reality. Before, we were just like them; now they look down on you because you're sick, crazy, and don't want help or treatment, as if it were our fault we have what we have. Human cruelty. There's no empathy or understanding. And of course, I wish we could cure ourselves with magic. But there are no magic wands. They think we want to be so sick. I hate people.

 

[locked*n*loaded]

Most people I've encountered in my life have been assholes one way or another. Not all, but most.

 

[LittleMagician]

eww! it speaks volumes about your boyfriend, if he's willing to associate with people like that... like, what are STANDARDS?

I just don't understand because he's amazing in every other regard so this is fucking with my brain but you're so right

More reasons for why I'm a misanthrope, everyone treats the ones around them like they are toys.

"Welcome to the real world" someone said here; I agree those people haven't been welcomed to the real world, we should place them upside down and saw them like they used to do, stone them, oubliette them, hang them in masses, force them to eat corpses or starve and get eaten by maggots and rats in a dungeon placed in fuck nowhere. Fuck the morals , these people don't change, they don't care to change, we should remind them what happens when you breach the bare minimum respect and "look out for yourself" , don't make me fucking laugh.

These people treat life as it's a game, I talk about breaching the bare minimum respect, those people are actually thinking like this most likely, seeing everything as just another thing to exploit in real life as it were a video game, what disgusting and insignificant gnats they are.

This is a perfect piece of writing, I resonated with this on another level

 

[Pluto]

 

[catfriend]

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cats ARE better than people!

 

[Darkover]

Nobody cares until you're dead
It is because everybody is busy doing something with their lives and don't care for others unless they have a benefit out of your friendship.
One of the things I have learned the hard way is that real friends are pretty rare. Acquaintances come and go, but real friends are there for you through thick and thin. If you have one or two real friends in a lifetime, that is an awesome thing.
Don't expect or seek a lot of friends. It isn't going to happen. If you find one good friend, treasure that person.
It's sucks knowing that when I die people will say how they miss me and how I was such a good friend, brother and son but they are all fucking lies. Nobody gives a fuck until you are not there anymore.
"Dead people receive more flowers than the living ones because regret is stronger than gratitude."
No love till its ashes to ashes, get the rose when they close up the casket.

 

[LittleMagician]

Nobody cares until you're dead
It is because everybody is busy doing something with their lives and don't care for others unless they have a benefit out of your friendship.
One of the things I have learned the hard way is that real friends are pretty rare. Acquaintances come and go, but real friends are there for you through thick and thin. If you have one or two real friends in a lifetime, that is an awesome thing.
Don't expect or seek a lot of friends. It isn't going to happen. If you find one good friend, treasure that person.
It's sucks knowing that when I die people will say how they miss me and how I was such a good friend, brother and son but they are all fucking lies. Nobody gives a fuck until you are not there anymore.
"Dead people receive more flowers than the living ones because regret is stronger than gratitude."
No love till its ashes to ashes, get the rose when they close up the casket.

Very true

 

[GeorgeEastman]

All relationships get ruined somehow. We would all be better off never believing the fairy tales sold on TV and just accept it all for what it is, a pound full of rabid animals.

 

[LittleMagician]

All relationships get ruined somehow. We would all be better off never believing the fairy tales sold on TV and just accept it all for what it is, a pound full of rabid animals.

I hate humanity

 

[bankai]

Just cut out the people that disrespect you. They don't deserve you.

 

[LittleMagician]

Just cut out the people that disrespect you. They don't deserve you.

I would have to cut out the whole world if that was the case

 

[bankai]

I would have to cut out the whole world if that was the case

Not really. Everyone isn't an asshole.If you feel like they are, then i have news for you. You might be the asshole

 

[LittleMagician]

Not really. Everyone isn't an asshole.If you feel like they are, then i have news for you. You might be the asshole

*crickets* everyone has been disrespectful in some shape or form. If you believe otherwise you're merely coping

 

[humantool]

*crickets* everyone has been disrespectful in some shape or form. If you believe otherwise you're merely coping

I mean, it's debatable. Yeah, most people you meet might come off as assholes, but there's always a chance you'll come across someone genuinely decent. Just because you've had bad experiences doesn't mean the whole world runs on disrespect. And honestly, why waste energy trying to label everyone anyway?

 

[bankai]

*crickets* everyone has been disrespectful in some shape or form. If you believe otherwise you're merely coping

Well, that's just a normal part of life. And define disrespect. If you're talking about just plain old ribbing. I don't know. Regardless, there's just no need to associate with people whose company we don't enjoy. Let them know they're being disrespectful and if they don't change their ways,well there's no need to be in their company anymore.

 

[YandereMikuMistress]

Found out my boyfriend is still friends with a guy who openly disrespected me unprompted because I'm a woman saying I was bad news, a pick me, that I would "ruin him" and random fucking racist comments just because he wasnt happy with me and I guess he was jealous because he openly stated he was an incel and would be a virgin until he was 30…

I guess our relationship is successfully ruined because of his friends jealousy :]

Well I know exactly how that fucking feels. Only difference is this guy isn't just an incel. He's somebody who likes to go f*** around and then blame the opposite sex for being promiscuous when he himself is a fucking whore too calling women who go to bars sex ridden diseased filled women or loose women, or women who work with cars or jobs that are stereotypically deemed more masculine he calls them dykes that need to be raild,, and again alone on my birthday. I've never really celebrated my birthday anyways so ig it doesn't realllyyy matter, but the first time I did 2 years ago I believe,But I went out for my birthday with my partner and they wanted to see their friends and apparently all the booze he bought were for me. But when we got there they were all for his friends and it was my birthday. Nobody said hi to me. Nobody f****** even acknowledged my existence and then throughout it they degraded women showing girls nudes, and spreading stories about each other's girlfriends and Even saying s*** like how they feel the government needs to fire female masseuses and massage therapists and female physiotherapists because they're not strong enough to I guess massage their back or release the knots that are in their back they're over here literally being like women are so weak they can't even properly massage an injured back,, I know what you feeling because I'm still feeling it, everyday, might feel a bit different because we are two different people but all the pure lack of disrespect and care we deal with on a daily isn't fair,, it isn't right,, but it happens anyway, even if you make your feelings clear it doesn't mean the other will acknowledge them...

 

[Like_the_Angel]

I just don't understand because he's amazing in every other regard so this is fucking with my brain but you're so right

This is a perfect piece of writing, I resonated with this on another level

Idk I think he's not, you girls are satisfied with guys who treat you barely good, resonate on an empathic level with your partner should be the minimum requirement and a lot of ppl don't, so it happens this and eventually you will say mmh ok but he's a good guy and he will repeat stomp on your feelings without even understand because he's not sensitive as you

 

[YandereMikuMistress]

Just cut out the people that disrespect you. They don't deserve you.

It's never that easy I feel, but I wish it were, never know someones circumstances or how they grew up,, I feel I am a slave to those around me and I am here for there benefit and or growth because either way good or bad they grow even when you won't,, idk guess I'm also just in weird mood today, and I'm not trying to be rude at all because I do like seeing your posts and replies to people.

 

[LittleMagician]

I mean, it's debatable. Yeah, most people you meet might come off as assholes, but there's always a chance you'll come across someone genuinely decent. Just because you've had bad experiences doesn't mean the whole world runs on disrespect. And honestly, why waste energy trying to label everyone anyway?

Everyone will disrespect you in one way shape or form, it just depends on the degree which is affects you. I wasn't labelling people as assholes or not, the other guy was. I was just saying the truth

Well, that's just a normal part of life. And define disrespect. If you're talking about just plain old ribbing. I don't know. Regardless, there's just no need to associate with people whose company we don't enjoy. Let them know they're being disrespectful and if they don't change their ways,well there's no need to be in their company anymore.

Yeah I agree. But you tried to use a phrase akin to "if everyone is the problem maybe you're the problem". No, maybe humans are just hedonist and disrespectful by design. Everyone is programmed to see what they want from a person, and if they don't serve them then begone! I mean you pretty much described that yourself anyway

Well I know exactly how that fucking feels. Only difference is this guy isn't just an incel. He's somebody who likes to go f*** around and then blame the opposite sex for being promiscuous when he himself is a fucking whore too calling women who go to bars sex ridden diseased filled women or loose women, or women who work with cars or jobs that are stereotypically deemed more masculine he calls them dykes that need to be raild,, and again alone on my birthday. I've never really celebrated my birthday anyways so ig it doesn't realllyyy matter, but the first time I did 2 years ago I believe,But I went out for my birthday with my partner and they wanted to see their friends and apparently all the booze he bought were for me. But when we got there they were all for his friends and it was my birthday. Nobody said hi to me. Nobody f****** even acknowledged my existence and then throughout it they degraded women showing girls nudes, and spreading stories about each other's girlfriends and Even saying s*** like how they feel the government needs to fire female masseuses and massage therapists and female physiotherapists because they're not strong enough to I guess massage their back or release the knots that are in their back they're over here literally being like women are so weak they can't even properly massage an injured back,, I know what you feeling because I'm still feeling it, everyday, might feel a bit different because we are two different people but all the pure lack of disrespect and care we deal with on a daily isn't fair,, it isn't right,, but it happens anyway, even if you make your feelings clear it doesn't mean the other will acknowledge them...

That is fucking mental. I underestimated how vile men are.

 

[humantool]

Everyone will disrespect you in one way shape or form, it just depends on the degree which is affects you. I wasn't labelling people as assholes or not, the other guy was. I was just saying the truth

Yeah I agree. But you tried to use a phrase akin to "if everyone is the problem maybe you're the problem". No, maybe humans are just hedonist and disrespectful by design. Everyone is programmed to see what they want from a person, and if they don't serve them then begone! I mean you pretty much described that yourself anyway

I honestly don't fully buy that. Not everyone cares enough to disrespect you. Some people are just doing their own thing, not thinking about you at all, good or bad. Assuming everyone will disrespect you at some point feels more like a defensive mindset than a universal "truth"

 

[LittleMagician]

Idk I think he's not, you girls are satisfied with guys who treat you barely good, resonate on an empathic level with your partner should be the minimum requirement and a lot of ppl don't, so it happens this and eventually you will say mmh ok but he's a good guy and he will repeat stomp on your feelings without even understand because he's not sensitive as you

Well you do not know me because I have met plenty of guys and have ditched them in whatever time I wanted because I wasn't satisfied with them. The difference is I love this man. Please do not speak for all women in this regard…

I honestly don't fully buy that. Not everyone cares enough to disrespect you. Some people are just doing their own thing, not thinking about you at all, good or bad. Assuming everyone will disrespect you at some point feels more like a defensive mindset than a universal "truth"

Even if someone is nice at first, people will always find ways to observe and try to push your boundaries. Whether you "buy it" or not doesn't really matter because it's an objective reality. Has there been anyone in your life that hasn't disrespected you at least once?

 

[humantool]

Even if someone is nice at first, people will always find ways to observe and try to push your boundaries. Whether you "buy it" or not doesn't really matter because it's an objective reality. Has there been anyone in your life that hasn't disrespected you at least once?

Yes, there are people in my life who havent disrespected me, atleast not that I'm aware of. Not everything is about pushing boundaries. Sometimes people are just decent, it's rare, but it can happen. Claiming it's an objective reality that everyone will disrespect you sounds more like a personal belief than a fact

 

[Like_the_Angel]

Well you do not know me because I have met plenty of guys and have ditched them in whatever time I wanted because I wasn't satisfied with them. The difference is I love this man. Please do not speak for all women in this regard…

I'm sorry i didn't absolutely mean to be disrespectful on women or men, i hate all indiscriminately
It's it just happened to a pair of people i cared about at the moment, very similar situation, that they felt bad bc their partner couldn't understand, bc they were so less empathetic and "but i love him he's ok" i just don't understand if they hurt me and my feelings i no longer can have the same relationship with a person
Just that but relationship are a living hell full of little annoying faces of the dice