Nobody to vent to without being judged

[anywherebuthere]

As the title states. I've been holding it in for so long that it's driving me crazy .
So I have a relative who's really young , elementary school age . My little cousin sustained a traumatic brain injury and is in a vegetative state, it's been almost a year. I visit often and it triggers me . It infuriates me how my other family members are okay with keeping him like this . It takes everything in me to not speak my mind in respect to his parents. He is unable to walk, talk, or express himself . He only reacts to pain from his limbs and muscles being so tight from his inability to make purposeful movements . I know letting go and the concept of death is hard for most to digest , but essentially he is gone . Being forced to exist via feeding tube .
Am I thinking irrationally ?

 

[TheMothraFiles]

I don't think you're being irrational at all. People are selfishly and callously keeping him alive because THEY can't handle the loss.

 

[FuneralCry]

Of course you are not thinking irrationally, that sounds awful what he is going through. I believe that it is cruel forcing someone to live when they have no quality of life.

 

[OldDrummer]

Nope. Why do people value quantity, rather than quality, when it comes to life?

 

[anywherebuthere]

Thank you all for your input , i just had to let it out. I think it's so fucking selfish . What pisses me off the most is when they say "God has a plan for him" or my favorite, it's "God's will" . I want to punch them in their face . They just seem so damn delusional , it's sickening .