More suicidal after orgasm?

[TimeToBiteTheDust]

Hi, I wanna know if anyone has mroe ctb thoughts after orgasm. I've been having this for several months but now it's more stronger. I think it's related to chemicals in brain. Haven't researched. It sucks. I can't even enjoy sex.. I'm male. And this happens to me after being with a woman or alone. Don't know if this happens to women too.

 

[meek]

don't know about sex but masturbating is one of the very few things that I don't hate doing. so no ctb thoughts for me.

 

[nigelhernandez]

It actually has a name, post-coital depression

 

[Luchs]

Hi, I wanna know if anyone has mroe ctb thoughts after orgasm. I've been having this for several months but now it's more stronger. I think it's related to chemicals in brain. Haven't researched. It sucks. I can't even enjoy sex.. I'm male. And this happens to me after being with a woman or alone.

Post orgasm, whether self-inflicted or caused by someone else I always feel like I am on top of the world, like a miniature high, it lasts for about half a minute.

 

[TowerUpright]

I have felt that way in the past, when I was younger. I'd often softly cry.

Now, I'm just blah. I get nothing out of it. At all. I still have to put on a face and pretend, so my spouse doesn't realize how depressed I am.

 

[suffering]

"Directly after copulation, the devil's laughter is heard."

– Arthur Schopenhauer

 

[pentobarbitaldreams]

Yes. It think it's because there's a lot of positive emotional+physiological build up to orgasm so afterwards you notice the emptiness more.

 

[autumnal]

"Directly after copulation, the devil's laughter is heard."

– Arthur Schopenhauer

That's what you get from letting him watch!

 

[ReallySillyOtter]

Well, orgasms are also called La petite mort — French for the little death.

 

[Blackpoolbootz]

God I get this all the time, I was too embarrassed to mention it. I sniff poppers after orgasm I cry my eyes out everytime life seems more Empty and pointless and want to CBT. I still have the popper bottle in my hand and has occured to me to drink it. A couple of weeks ago grabbed my mates insulin which he left at mine, it does pass after about 10mins. Glad to sheared post

 

[Pallf]

It happens to women, or just me at least. You'd think it would help with the depression symptoms, but no.

 

[Wandering Infinity]

Hi, I wanna know if anyone has mroe ctb thoughts after orgasm. I've been having this for several months but now it's more stronger. I think it's related to chemicals in brain. Haven't researched. It sucks. I can't even enjoy sex.. I'm male. And this happens to me after being with a woman or alone. Don't know if this happens to women too.

It probably has to do with the prolactin that is released. Prolactin is a powerful hormone. It can cause one to cry or get sleepy from what I remember.

 

[Poptart]

It probably has to do with the prolactin that is released. Prolactin is a powerful hormone. It can cause one to cry or get sleepy from what I remember.

Interesting. I have a pituitary tumor that has caused my body to produce lots of prolactin. Ive never been pregnant and I produce breast milk lol.

Also, im always sleepy and cry a lot.

 

[puppy9]

"Right after copulation you can hear the devil's laughter."- from some Arthur guy

 

[TimeToBiteTheDust]

"Right after copulation you can hear the devil's laughter."- from some Arthur guy

Schope

 

[Final Escape]

Yea this has happened to me, particularly after masturbating.

 

[Deleted member 17949]

It actually has a name, post-coital depression

Who would have though.

Can't say I personally experience this though.

 

[raindrops]

Sorry to put a wall of text!

Yes I wanna ctb even more. I had sex with my ex-partner who left me in our home basically stranded with nothing after 11 years!!
Then ignored me for a month, his family won't speak to me, then bullied me with this girl he found on fb.

This girl he did speak with lives in Poland, he's in the UK. He told me she helped him when he was lonely, lonely after leaving me!!!!
Then he started crying to me about her after sex!!!! I mean really crying, telling me he's hurt her while he's still crying, wtf. I feel used.
She's cut off contact with him now because he's been intimate with me, now he says he's lonely.
After sex he said "I'm lonely now"... lonely because he hasn't got her.

He promises me that he's not using me and I believe it. Why would he cry like that though.
His mum liked some of her pictures on fb and my ex called her so gorgeous and beautiful, he called her "my darling" liked all her photos.
He's blocked now though, I want and pray for him to stay blocked by her. If god is real, keep him blocked and ignored by her!!!

 

[Shakespear's Brother]

That's what you get from letting him watch!

LOL

 

[heraclitus]

Post-coital tristesse:

Post-coital tristesse - Wikipedia

en.wikipedia.org