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peacefulout

peacefulout

it’s rough out here
Jul 13, 2025
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feeling useless and don't have real goals or anything to work for. tell me to do something, and I'll do it. tell me to get a coffee, I'll do it. i need anything to stay sane. tell me to do what you're afraid of or what you hate or what you love I dont care . thank you
 
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Hollowman

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Dec 14, 2021
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No one's going to tell you to run in front of a train. Go for a walk and pick up some litter.
 
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hippiedeath

hippiedeath

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Jul 12, 2025
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Don't let people tell you what to do. Do this now.
 
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Nah

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Mar 18, 2025
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feeling useless and don't have real goals or anything to work for. tell me to do something, and I'll do it. tell me to get a coffee, I'll do it. i need anything to stay sane. tell me to do what you're afraid of or what you hate or what you love I dont care . thank you

Go to the gym. It's something that keeps me sane.
Try to get a 24hour one. Then, when you're having a sleepless night, go to the gym.

Or just go every few days.

Or go for runs every morning.
 
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CatLvr

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Aug 1, 2024
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Don't let people tell you what to do. Do this now.
This. A bazillion times THIS!!

BUT ... Since you are letting me boss you around do this:

Sit with yourself and just let your mind focus on the clouds in the sky. Or the little bug flitting around in the grass. Or the bird sitting on the fence looking at you like you have lost your mind.

Do this every morning and every evening for at least 15 minutes. Bonus points if you take your shoes and socks off and put the soles of your feet in firm (but not hard, don't have to push down) contact with the grass and soil.

You will eventually "see" things you need to do for your soul. It won't make sense to your "logical" mind. In fact, you will probably think you are losing it completely. I will NEVER forget the first time I actually had "that" thought -- lol -- I was SO sure something profound was gonna come to me. Nope. I was minding my own business, watching the chickens gather themselves up and go inside for the evening (believe it or not chickens are actually VERY orderly creatures), and I thought "Dammit!! You NEED to get some housework done before you go to bed! That living room is a disaster. What if someone comes over?" 🤨😳🙄🤬🤬 First of all, it wasn't THAT bad -- probably needed vacuuming -- but other than that it was fine! Second of all, I don't have any friends! 🙄🙄 Nobody's gonna come knocking on my door. 🤣🤣

But guess who went and picked up, dusted and vacuumed before she went to bed. 🤦🏻🙋🏻🤷🏻🤷🏻
 
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Blurry_Buildings

Just Existing
Sep 27, 2023
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Buy a coffee and a pastry you like to go with it at a cafe. Buy the nice expensive kind, not just plain black coffee.
 
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Buy a coffee and a pastry you like to go with it at a cafe. Buy the nice expensive kind, not just plain black coffee.
building off this. cookies or cake is what i would usually want to get at a cafe/bakery. affogato (espresso and vanilla ice cream) is also really good!
 

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