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SHThrowAway213

SHThrowAway213

That's the hell I live with
Apr 19, 2018
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I'm a bit of a dunce when it comes to legal stuff, I don't understand it.
I found out he will be responsible for the mortgage, as it is a joint mortgage.
But I am not sure if they would lower the monthly payments for him or anything like that because of his income, but from what I saw online he is liable for it and still has to make payments.
I'm not sure about council tax as that is the only thing I haven't researched.
I know he is still responsible for the electric and gas as that is in his name, but the water bill is in my name.
But every website I go on just says about debts coming out of the estate?
But the water bill would not be a debt, and I'm guessing there would still have to be a standing charge on the property even after I die, so someone would have to pay that, but whose responsibility would that be?
He also has a paypal credit account which is completely in his name, so that would not fall on my executors hands. But we also have a joint account with an overdraft on with minus 500.
But from what I read online he would still be liable for that too.
Nothing is really clear.
I'm actually thinking of ringing some of these companies or even a solicitor to make it really clear, but I don't want to tip any of them of on my plans.
I know I said I don't care that I'm going to leave him in debt, which to be honest I still don't. He is going to get the money for the flat sale anyway.
But I could at least send him some instructions on what he needs to do before I jump.
 
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sadworld

sadworld

existence is a nightmare
Aug 25, 2020
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Same for me, im also bad when it comes to understanding that stuff but at the end nothing of it matters anyway
 
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DyingAlf

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Aug 22, 2020
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Your husband is your legal next of kin.
He will be responsible for everything that is in his name, everything that is in your name and everything that is in both of your names.

This UK website might have some useful information, maybe for you now, definitely for your husband after you ctb.
 
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Meditation guide

Meditation guide

Always was, is, and always shall be.
Jun 22, 2020
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I'm a bit of a dunce when it comes to legal stuff, I don't understand it.
I found out he will be responsible for the mortgage, as it is a joint mortgage.
But I am not sure if they would lower the monthly payments for him or anything like that because of his income, but from what I saw online he is liable for it and still has to make payments.
I'm not sure about council tax as that is the only thing I haven't researched.
I know he is still responsible for the electric and gas as that is in his name, but the water bill is in my name.
But every website I go on just says about debts coming out of the estate?
But the water bill would not be a debt, and I'm guessing there would still have to be a standing charge on the property even after I die, so someone would have to pay that, but whose responsibility would that be?
He also has a paypal credit account which is completely in his name, so that would not fall on my executors hands. But we also have a joint account with an overdraft on with minus 500.
But from what I read online he would still be liable for that too.
Nothing is really clear.
I'm actually thinking of ringing some of these companies or even a solicitor to make it really clear, but I don't want to tip any of them of on my plans.
I know I said I don't care that I'm going to leave him in debt, which to be honest I still don't. He is going to get the money for the flat sale anyway.
But I could at least send him some instructions on what he needs to do before I jump.
He is liable for anything his name is on.
 
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