Discussion I'm alone and virgin, I'm giving myself a year before I turn 20 to change my situation.

[fadedghost]

There is a 1% chance left

You are an exception, not the rule. I am confronted with the rule every day

Yes, but my problem isn't just about my jaw; all the features of my face—mouth, nose, eyes, jaw—aren't very harmonious and are a bit unattractive.

Save up. The best plastic surgeons are all in Los Angeles. They can't do anything with your eyes or mouth often (or they can, but as a guy, you don't want to do those things). But they can alter teeth, jaw, and nose, and you can also get a trainer.

Money can change a lot. I know it's very hard to get money while lonely and lacking sex and friends because it's depressing, but you do have the option to try to overcome things and do that. There's a lot of old people, boomers, who are going to need medical care. Pharmacists, pharmacy techs, anesthesiologists, there are real high paying medical careers that don't require that much education... You could become an anesthesiologist, make good money, have plastic surgery at 23 and 24 and have a nice looking girlfriend at 25. The only thing is, once you get those, do not get more: no fillers, no weird stuff later in life. Plastic surgery is a "do it once" (or possibly twice) sort of thing, and the people in Hollywood who fuck up and look strange look that way because they get addicted to the rush of looking nice after it and they want that rush again, but just get a medical (non-doctor) career and save up. There are plenty of nurses who are needed and nursing school is fast; you could work double shifts if you don't have friends or anyone who wants to spend time with you, it's a great thing in terms of saving up lots of money.

oh one more thing: be careful of cheek implants and buccal fat changes. They look terrible on almost everyone, they only work well on a few people. If a plastic surgeon suggests that, you may want to run.

 

[penguinl0v3s]

Not really—no more than anyone else—but not bringing a girl home at my age is embarrassing.

It sounds like you want a partner for social status reasons. This repels a majority of women.

 

[Albertvincent]

Save up. The best plastic surgeons are all in Los Angeles. They can't do anything with your eyes or mouth often (or they can, but as a guy, you don't want to do those things). But they can alter teeth, jaw, and nose, and you can also get a trainer.

Money can change a lot. I know it's very hard to get money while lonely and lacking sex and friends because it's depressing, but you do have the option to try to overcome things and do that. There's a lot of old people, boomers, who are going to need medical care. Pharmacists, pharmacy techs, anesthesiologists, there are real high paying medical careers that don't require that much education... You could become an anesthesiologist, make good money, have plastic surgery at 23 and 24 and have a nice looking girlfriend at 25. The only thing is, once you get those, do not get more: no fillers, no weird stuff later in life. Plastic surgery is a "do it once" (or possibly twice) sort of thing, and the people in Hollywood who fuck up and look strange look that way because they get addicted to the rush of looking nice after it and they want that rush again, but just get a medical (non-doctor) career and save up. There are plenty of nurses who are needed and nursing school is fast; you could work double shifts if you don't have friends or anyone who wants to spend time with you, it's a great thing in terms of saving up lots of money.

oh one more thing: be careful of cheek implants and buccal fat changes. They look terrible on almost everyone, they only work well on a few people. If a plastic surgeon suggests that, you may want to run.

I don't want to have cosmetic surgery

It sounds like you want a partner for social status reasons. This repels a majority of women.

Yes, that is my goal

 

[Bitter Almonds]

Oof. My child, there are 8 billion people in the world. if only 1% of people like you, that's 80 million. if half of those are men it's 40 million.

you absolutely can meet someone. the reason apps are so popular is because you can meet people you would never have the opportunity to meet out in the real world, just due to timing, initial interests, social groups, etc.

It sounds to me that if you're unwilling to meet people where they are, you're not actually trying. I would also be curious - would you settle for a girl you deem "ugly" the same way you deem yourself as "ugly?"

(Also, as a gay man who has been on the incel forums that it sounds like you might frequent, many of the guys who post themselves to be judged are genuinely decent looking.)

Lastly, if you don't see women as people, you will never be able to attract anyone.