I wish I just had someone to hold me.

[Dandelion's]

I have nobody to trust enough to tell them, they will always judge me, blame me. Quite frankly I never feel safe.

I feel touch starved all I want is a hug, and to stop walking on eggshells.

 

[Aflame5926]

this might be a very weird thing to say but maybe go to sex workers and pay for it?

just take it as a grain of salt and a compleet random thought of mine.

reason is because for example in japan you can rent a person to be your bf/gf for example.
they will also be on your side for the time you paid ofcourse.

 

[Dandelion's]

this might be a very weird thing to say but maybe go to sex workers and pay for it?

just take it as a grain of salt and a compleet random thought of mine.

reason is because for example in japan you can rent a person to be your bf/gf for example.
they will also be on your side for the time you paid ofcourse.

I do not desire anything sexual or romantic, it also would be really weird to rent a sex worker for simple hugging. I imagine I would be judged which I don't want.

 

[Minfilia]

i get you all too well from word to word. while i cannot give a physical hug, a digital hug is something that i can offer.

 

[Dandelion's]

i get you all too well from word to word. while i cannot give a physical hug, a digital hug is something that i can offer.

Thanks, you are so sweet.

 

[vinicuit]

i feel you. i also have no one, and my best friend has touch aversion, we have never hugged in years of friendship. and i'm here starving

at moments i feel like a simple body warm would make me forget my depression for a minute at least

 

[bpd_sucks]

I do not desire anything sexual or romantic, it also would be really weird to rent a sex worker for simple hugging. I imagine I would be judged which I don't want.

knowing a few, it's much more common than you'd expect.

 

[BradGuy123]

I do not desire anything sexual or romantic, it also would be really weird to rent a sex worker for simple hugging. I imagine I would be judged which I don't want.

I'm sorry you're going through this. The desire for non-sexual physical contact is a human desire. Have you considered going to a church or a twelve step meeting? In some of those places (but not all) they hug each other. It may or not be your cup of tea to go to one of those places - just an idea.