trying to make everything neat and tidy for my family is ideal. i want to be less of a wankstain in my death than i was alive. but the entire process seems too complicated and i am tired. i dont even know how or if i will write a note because i dont know what i can say that will be enough to explain to make them understand. im just so fucking tired of all the bullshit society piles upon us.
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Bitcoin (BTC):Ethereum (ETH):Monero (XMR):I feel the same way. I don't even know where to start. I think I'll leave a note but not to say goodbye, just with the bank websites, utilities, insurance and usernames/passwords, due dates etc. also names and phone numbers to employers, life insurance and the like.
I don't know what to say in a note either. I've said it before in other threads, nothing I can write down will make it any easier for them… so why bother.
GentleJerk
Carrot juice pimp.
- Dec 14, 2021
- 1,372
Life is full of loose ends, possessions, baggage and clutter. Unfortunately when we die, a lot of these burdens are left to family members to sort thru or hold on to...
I think doing whatever you can, within your abilities, to reduce the negative impact on the people you leave behind is a noble pursuit. That's one of the advantages of being able to choose your own time to go!
Pluto
Cat Extremist
- Dec 27, 2020
- 6,928
The main purpose of a note is to assure others that the decision made was not influenced by outsider pressures and was carefully considered. It can help protect people around you from being blamed.
A lot of the other stuff is very overwhelming. I've just been doing it a little bit at a time. Have compiled quite a large document full of information on accounts and such. The legal will should be pretty simple as everything will be going to only 2 people.
FuneralCry
Just wanting some peace
- Sep 24, 2020
- 48,616
I understand that it is hard to do things when you are tired of everything. All I want is to sleep forever and never have to experience anything ever again. I do plan to write a note and I will keep it simple, saying things like there is nothing you could have done. My note will attempt to provide closure to those left behind. I hope you find freedom from your suffering.Similar threads
