Story I dont think im ready for life.. (plus venting)

[FoxSauce]

Well just starting off with story.

Inwas suppose to get ready for work so we left kinda more earlier so my other sister A who got in more earlier than me in a different location ofc my sister A and me had a really bad argument before we left.

So my emotions was in a all time high but I listen to some tunes while I cried for a bit. As my sister B left sister A to her place at work we left to go to the bank to withdraw some cash before my shift a pretty simple task...


Ofc my sister B was with her signal and not moving at all as she waited for someone to let her pass to enter said bank on the left and then.. BAM! ️️we get hit.

Ofc we were just like well great..my sister panics. The guy got off and ask if we were ok and we say we were fine. Ofc we parked in the bank so we dont have to be in the middle of the road.

Our car was fine but he wasn't if wasn't that bad just a small peice got off. Ofc we were crying out of fear and shock. That guy was nice at first. I called sister A so I asked for the procedure ahead since sister A and I already were in a similar situation back in November. Long story short.. sister B was trying to get oriented since it was her first time.


Called my boss and told her the situation she was understanding shes a sweetheart.
Also the dude just walked away a d starting calling a bunch a people.

Ofc my mom showed up and the got got pissy and started just being mad to the point he go confrontational and grabbed my mom , of course of police wasn't there yet.

He left in reverse ofc (so we couldn't get the license plate) and my sister gave him her license but he didn't which sketchy as shit.

I tried to explain to her he was trying to take advantage of her. She still thought it was her fault even tho it wasn't.

I went in to work worried ofc still in shock


I realized my sisters and I aren't ready for the real world. If my didnt show up we dunno what could happen..so I'm grateful for that. Still we are not ready for the real world we are too naive. I dunno how am I gonna get through that. Ofc Ik i should know better and not be a pussy but I wish I could be other people who don't take bs with people but I get scared of people that one bad comment can have a bullet in your brain.

Ofc I won't deny the fact that we need to toughen up.

I hope all of you guys have a good day

Thanks for reading ik this way to long but it was the only way to make everything make sense.

 

[Forever Sleep]

I'm sorry. That does sound a stressful situation to be in. Even if it wasn't bad and, no one was hurt, it's still a shock and you just don't know how people will react.

To me, it sounds as if you did a lot right. You pulled off the road so as not to block traffic. You called your employer. It started off calmly at least.

Did you get as far as exchanging insurers? I don't drive but, I think that's what people do. A colleague once was carrying a lot of heavy equipment in their car. The person ahead braked suddenly and, they went into the back of them. They said it's usually the person at the back who is blamed- they didn't leave adequate stopping distance. So- hopefully the guy realised that and, you won't hear anymore.

If the damage to his car was minor, he may just want to sort it out himself rather than involve his insurer. Fingers crossed, you won't hear more.

I don't think you should feel bad that this shook you up though. The 'bump' was bad enough but to witness unpleasantness afterwards isn't fun. I think most people would have been shaken up.

 

[FoxSauce]

Yeah the issue has been resolved an officer explained to my sister that she wasn't at fault.

The ofc didn't became violent infront of an officer but still he was pretty unhinged.

The officer explained that it wasn't her fault plus he gave the guy a stern talking to basically scolded him.

And the guy has to fix it it himself which I'm glad cuz he blaming my sister for the whole thing.

Ofc I tried calling her to check if she was OK. I didn't want her to be in danger but thank god she was ok.

Since our car was fine, we didn't have to fill anything to him, so in other words he has to fix it himself. Neither my sister or him wanted to do a case so nothing escalated.

Finished my shift as best I could and got home and plop into bed.

The only thing that I'm glad if my mom didn't show up he would've taken advantage of the situation for his benefit. Ofc my mom is not the best person to deal with conflict,she can threaten people she's a badass no doubt but still she comes off as scsry. But I'm super glad she stranded up for us.

Anyways that's the end of the story