How to cope with having no one

[Not_A_Seagull]

Even though I have friends and family I still feel like I am alone

Anyone else feel like this? If I had a job at least I could use the dark net to spend my money on drugs to have fun or some kind of hobby.

 

[LighthouseHermit]

If you don't have the right people around you, who fill the social need you have, you become lonely. Have known a lot of people who had tons of people around them, but nobody really listened. I'm sorry you are going through that.

 

[-nobodyknows-]

I don't know how to deal with it. How am I supposed to care about myself if no one wants me or wants to be around me I want to die

 

[kiti0711]

There were also people who listened attentively, but they weren't the ones I was hoping for.

 

[Unsure and alone]

Not a clue, because honestly I landed here on this thread because I'm lonely .

Warmlines do help me some though.
It's always hit or miss with them .

 

[suicidal_tendencies]

talking with friends helps if you have good friends, but if you don't have anyone, there aren't any healthy coping mechanisms I think. The only things I would do in this case is committing, cutting or going to brothels and other rather unhealthy escapes from reality

 

[zizzou]

I dont think I'll ever date long term again, Im too afraid to lose now. Dont think I can ever trust myself again. I know what you mean though. Friends and family, as much as their a part of your life, they arent in the way a partner would be. They have their own lives.

Its hard not having anyone to call, message, plan things with, see on the weekend. Noone who prioritizes time with you.

 

[fedup1982]

Sorry to tell you but the dark net is a fking scam, all the drugs are duds, no strength. It's fking shit.