How do i write a note which will make my lover ones move on the fastest?

[majnun]

I've written and rewritten my notes, my intent is to keep it brief and hope everybody moves on fast. So in that light, what should I write? How do I make people forget me and move on like I never existed?

 

[chaewon]

Are u trying/willing to lie in the note to make them move on faster? Or are u just asking in general for specific sentences or a tone to do that?

 

[ohsosleepy]

Realistically, there is no way to do this. As much as some of us don't want it to, our death is likely to cause some amount of pain for others. All you can really do is write what you want to say. If you need thoughts and guidance on what to write, I've seen a couple guides posted here. I'm still struggling with writing mine in a way that's thoughtful to those I will leave behind, so I get it.

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[singingcrow]

Realistically, there is no way to do this. As much as some of us don't want it to, our death is likely to cause some amount of pain for others. All you can really do is write what you want to say. If you need thoughts and guidance on what to write, I've seen a couple guides posted here. I'm still struggling with writing mine in a way that's thoughtful to those I will leave behind, so I get it.

HOW TO WRITE A SUICIDE NOTE

How to Leave with Minimal Pain for Those Who Remain

Hey everyone, I've been working on this guide because I'm interested in exploring options and details to consider so that CTB has the least possible negative impact on survivors and those who discover the body, to make ctb as sensitive as possible. I've seen many posts worried about "messing...

sanctioned-suicide.net

how many pages will yours be?

 

[Matchaaa]

Realistically, there is no way to do this. As much as some of us don't want it to, our death is likely to cause some amount of pain for others. All you can really do is write what you want to say. If you need thoughts and guidance on what to write, I've seen a couple guides posted here. I'm still struggling with writing mine in a way that's thoughtful to those I will leave behind, so I get it.

HOW TO WRITE A SUICIDE NOTE

How to Leave with Minimal Pain for Those Who Remain

Hey everyone, I've been working on this guide because I'm interested in exploring options and details to consider so that CTB has the least possible negative impact on survivors and those who discover the body, to make ctb as sensitive as possible. I've seen many posts worried about "messing...

sanctioned-suicide.net

I found that this post already covers all the points I wanted to make. I think you could consider to focus on explaining the reasons behind it and reassuring them that "it's not your fault," while also explaining that this choice is a form of relief. You might also consider suggesting that they seek professional help.

I hope everything works out for you.

 

[mahoganyswan]

I've written and rewritten my notes, my intent is to keep it brief and hope everybody moves on fast. So in that light, what should I write? How do I make people forget me and move on like I never existed?

I guess the best way would be to try and answer any questions they might have about it. Like why, or things you may have tried to do to get help, or anything that gives them clarity or confirmation. I honestly think that reassuring them they're not in fault may be an unfavorable move, and instead directing focus more towards your own personal reasons why is a better call.
But reactions will differ from person to person, and there's no way of telling how they'd react - just thoroughly explaining and asking them to seek their own professional help may be the best way.
I wish you the best.

 

[ohsosleepy]

how many pages will yours be?

I'm writing more than one, as all of my relationships are different, so there are some things that one might read that I don't think another person needs to know. But my main note is a little over two pages when formatted with default Google Docs settings. That length may continue to change as time goes on though haha

 

[NotGuardian]

I never really thought about writing a note that helps the people I leave behind. While writing for their sake makes sense, my focus was venting how I felt about myself. Communicating my desperation, and depravity to some imaginary person makes the end I crave feel realistic and right. How I plan on exiting has a lot of self-preservation instincts to overcome. It helps to write about my own predicament as I build up to it.

Plus trying to understand each individual person and how my death could affect them is so taxing. The best I can do is not blame anyone, and just make clear that I brought myself to this point.

I commend you for making the effort