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loopylou

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Jan 11, 2021
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When people say ... HOPE.

hold on, pain ends.

what's your thoughts on this phrase?

see I can kinda relate to that as some days I'm happy and some days I'm sad. And if I can get through those sad days and hold on a little longer then maybe everything will be alright ?
 
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KleinerWolf

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Do u know what hope means for you?
Everyone's idea of hope is different.

Although they could be referring to it in general as in the better days/years.
 
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loopylou

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Jan 11, 2021
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Do u know what hope means for you?
Everyone's idea of hope is different.

Although they could be referring to it in general a sin the better days/years.
To me, hope is wanting a better something. Better days. A better future. I dunno I'm rubbish with words :(
 
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KleinerWolf

KleinerWolf

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To me, hope is wanting a better something. Better days. A better future. I dunno I'm rubbish with words :(
Yes I agree with you.

Tbh people can be in a complete state of despair whether it's perception or if it's actually that bad. It's important to distinguish but nonetheless

I think having hope and having something to look forward to that's important to people or sets of beliefs is what help keep people alive.

Although people have to see it for themselves at some point.
 
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*Hope*

*Hope*

Student
Jan 18, 2021
112
Does not apply to someone who is feeling suicidal due to a permanent cause
 
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Spiral

Spiral

Experienced
Jan 22, 2021
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When people say ... HOPE.

hold on, pain ends.

what's your thoughts on this phrase?

see I can kinda relate to that as some days I'm happy and some days I'm sad. And if I can get through those sad days and hold on a little longer then maybe everything will be alright ?
I think hope is part of SI, and it is really strong too. Even when you know for a fact that all hope is gone and there is no possible way for things to change....you still hope. It is how the human race has survived so long. Eventually there comes a time when hope means something different though. Now I HOPE I go to sleep and don't wake up. Even though I know that's impossible to happen so easily, I still hope :nomouth:
 

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watchingthewheels

Enlightened
Jan 23, 2021
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When people say ... HOPE.

hold on, pain ends.

what's your thoughts on this phrase?

see I can kinda relate to that as some days I'm happy and some days I'm sad. And if I can get through those sad days and hold on a little longer then maybe everything will be alright ?
Back in the late 90's, at a time when I was having an episode bordering on suicide, someone quoted to me the story of "Solomon's Ring"...he wanted a ring that had an inscription to make a man sad when he's happy, and happy when he's sad...it was inscribed with the words "This, too, shall pass."

As for hope: "Hope is what remains to be seen." -Rush, "The Garden", from CLOCKWORK ANGELS
 
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Dr Iron Arc

Dr Iron Arc

Into the Unknown
Feb 10, 2020
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Pain doesn't end, it just gets slightly more numb until something else comes to either reopen the wound or bring new pain.
 
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NightmareTour

NightmareTour

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May 13, 2020
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To me hope has been something that my mind creates to keep me holding on a little longer, but in the end it just causes more pain. Hope has always turned out to be false, and when I realise that, it hurts much more than if it had never been there at all.
 
BeansOfRequirement

BeansOfRequirement

Man-child, loser, autistic, etc.
Jan 26, 2021
5,845
Uh, so the idea is to not end the pain because it will end later? Bruh moment.
 
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Hurt

Paragon
Nov 13, 2020
904
Well I've been holding on for years and pain is still here.
 
LastFlowers

LastFlowers

the haru that can read
Apr 27, 2019
2,170
Hope is nothing but a visage to despair. It's a flimsy face we slap on our moments of terror and trauma, it's that false light at the end of a dark tunnel. Hope is a taunt, hope is a tease, hope is a game we always lose.
Hope should be replaced with logic and reason, the reasoning of our odds in this world...bad, good? How likely are we to succeed, to fail? And for the pain to end?
Well, my pain has no end, hope does not spring eternal, and there is nothing to "hold on(to)".
 
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watchingthewheels

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Jan 23, 2021
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Ever stop to think why, in the myth of Pandora's box, that "hope" was in the same box as all the evils that were unleashed upon the world? And why "hope" was the one thing that remained in the box before it was closed?
 
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loopylou

Learn to fly
Jan 11, 2021
884
I think hope is part of SI, and it is really strong too. Even when you know for a fact that all hope is gone and there is no possible way for things to change....you still hope. It is how the human race has survived so long. Eventually there comes a time when hope means something different though. Now I HOPE I go to sleep and don't wake up. Even though I know that's impossible to happen so easily, I still hope :nomouth:
I completely agree. I think my SI is just Hope :(
Ever stop to think why, in the myth of Pandora's box, that "hope" was in the same box as all the evils that were unleashed upon the world? And why "hope" was the one thing that remained in the box before it was closed?
Absolutely !
 
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