NSFW Have anyone here has been stalked or experience anything similar?

[FoxSauce]

Hello! Just a little discussion

Just general curiosity has any of you have been a victim of stalking? How did you deal with the afteemath afterwards?


Ofc if anyone is being followed is important to report it. No dont ever think it was your fault or thinking if have done something else everything would turn out differently.

Im aware that stalking is not taken as serious as it should. And yes I that both men can be stalked as any other gender.


anyhow feel free to tell your thought or story or anything

Hope yall have a great day! ♡


Edit: I did have a few experiences, one was in elementary school with an autistic kid I think. I have nothing against with people on the spectrum but he used to stalk me and my sisters for some odd reason I'd never knew why. He would chase us, stare, one time he choked us with a seat belt. We'll a woman who had her personal business would pick us up. He wouldn't let us leave in our drop off to the point I tried to protect my sisters but I got pinned down on the floor after a chase. Ofc I didnt report it beacuse I thought I was to blame and well he was on the spectrum so I felt guilty.

Another time in elementary school with another kid and then in highschool he was really weird but ig now he's cool.

As aftermath left me pretty scared people didn't take me seriously not even my parents so I would be super paranoid to say no or offended anyone a still don't like when people grab my wrist. But I guess that's in the pass

 

[Unhumanly.]

I've been stalked, not in the most extreme extent, people are just curious to dig something out of my life to judge and spread a rumors about when it comes to my life, but only I can tell if what they investigated out of their assumption on me is true or is it just an assumption, at least they'll never knew

Although it's not too extreme, it's definitely so irritating, I wish people actually start seeing me for who I am in what I'm willing to share, instead of inventing me through their assumptions and painting bad image of me

 

[LostLily]

Had a friend who wanted to date me. And kept insisting that we date, even though I told him I just wanted to be friends. It got creepy, he kept calling me, I blocked his number and he showed up at my house.

 

[identity0]

I was. Mentally ill guy that did all sorts of disturbing things including steal my phone, lurk outside my house. Police locked him up overnight once. Not sure what you mean about the aftermath. Mentally i think it made me more paranoid, have a strong desire for privacy, have nightmares about it etc. Several people told me they thought he might kill me one day and i wonder if he'll randomly turn up

 

[AdultVirgin]

well I haven't been the victim.....

 

[FoxSauce]

I was. Mentally ill guy that did all sorts of disturbing things including steal my phone, lurk outside my house. Police locked him up overnight once. Not sure what you mean about the aftermath. Mentally i think it made me more paranoid, have a strong desire for privacy, have nightmares about it etc. Several people told me they thought he might kill me one day and i wonder if he'll randomly turn up

Well as aftermath I mean like you said after it happened

well I haven't been the victim.....

Thats totally alright tho..I sense something else tho. Sorry for being foward

well I haven't been the victim.....

Thats totally alright tho..I sense something else so. Sorry for being foward

 

[Forever Sleep]

I can understand why you didn't want to report him but still, that sounded so scary. Really though- even if they aren't 'at fault', that doesn't mean they're not dangerous. Isn't there that phrase: 'A dog that bites is a dog that bites.' It likely is good to examine why to try to prevent the behaviour in that and other similar offenders. It's not much consolation though if someone does actually get hurt or, even killed.

I've often wondered that. How do they balance personal freedom and risk? Obviously, it can't be nice for a person to be locked up in an institution. The ideal I imagine is for them to live in the community. Still, when they get risk assessment wrong, the consequences can be dire. I can recall two instances where I used to live where things went terribly wrong. Not stalking. In this case, a very bad arson and an axe murder.

Personally no, luckily nothing severe at all. Just the fairly tame social media weidos and likely romance scammers.

 

[Griever]

I had a stalker

 

[bankai]

No, I've not had any stalkers. But then the really good ones are the ones that you wouldn't know about. Something to think about, scary though it might seem.

 

[RoseGirl]

Had a friend who wanted to date me. And kept insisting that we date, even though I told him I just wanted to be friends. It got creepy, he kept calling me, I blocked his number and he showed up at my house.

Had a similar experience, i hooked up w this guy for like 2 weeks then ghosted him and after i blocked him he ended up coming to my house 2 days in a row and sat outside for like several hours. The first time i wasn't home so he sat there for 3 hours, he was talking abt it on discord lol so that's how i know. Then the second time i was home w my gf and he like knocked on my window... Super scary tbh... i had to like talk to him and tell him that he should go find someone else.

My girlfriend also cyber stalks me and i basically can't say anything online without there being a reasonable chance of her finding it. Even on 4 chan too lol. + she had access to my discord account for some time and would look at everything i'd send to anyone. Never told me abt it tho till i was being a whore w some guy while she wasn't texting me and uhm she like sent them a message from my account. Oh and changed my password too.