Has anyone else noticed?

[Yogobro298]

A lot of family members that preach "family is important…etc etc" just pretend like they care and don't want to be bothered with you when it really comes down to it? Same goes for a lot of friends as well. Obviously I'm just basing this off my experience. Everyone in my family is quite narcissistic.

 

[FuneralCry]

Most people are hypocritical anyway. It is true that people do this. I see it as better to keep my distance from others. People can betray you and let you down. I cannot wait to exit this world, I cannot stand people.

 

[Snake of Eden]

People like to pretend they prefer sentimentality over superficiality to feel good about themselves. It is a type of self lying. In reality everyone just care about their lives and their own happiness and they dont give a shit about anyone else

 

[NoSurprises]

When people talk about the importance of family really are saying "I want you to be ok because If you are not ok I will feel bad and I will have to intervene and I will have problems and I don't want other people to see me feeling bad because that would make me feel uncomfortable"

It's just another dumb and selfish sentiment that comes from religion and social conventions of the middle ages

 

[deadverysoon]

A lot of family members that preach "family is important…etc etc" just pretend like they care and don't want to be bothered with you when it really comes down to it? Same goes for a lot of friends as well. Obviously I'm just basing this off my experience. Everyone in my family is quite narcissistic.

i know what you mean... its heartbreaking.

 

[ClownMe]

Yep, literally everyone in my family is a narcissist.

 

[deadverysoon]

People like to pretend they prefer sentimentality over superficiality to feel good about themselves. It is a type of self lying. In reality everyone just care about their lives and their own happiness and they dont give a shit about anyone else

i have to disagree with this.
most people i know are this way.
but there are some people who are not that selfish. not everyone who is a "good" human always have been good. they became "good" because someone gave them love and nice words and the positive emotional cate they needed.

i did not see many good people coming out of torture, shaming, online-bullieing, spreading lies, blackmailing, hitting, raping, abusing, etc.

thats what nazis did. they created hate hate hate. and thats what i experienced my whole life. especially the last two years.

the world is full of this nazis and childfuckers. thats why i just want to leave.

but i think there are a few good people and that makes me happy in some way.

but the people who tortured me the last years for personal benefit are just cowards.

 

[TheHatedOne]

Family is just bunch of random people you're connected with only by blood.

 

[ihatemylife]

A lot of family members that preach "family is important…etc etc" just pretend like they care and don't want to be bothered with you when it really comes down to it? Same goes for a lot of friends as well. Obviously I'm just basing this off my experience. Everyone in my family is quite narcissistic.

they care until you start to inconvenience them.

 

[Feeding Pigeons]

they care until you start to inconvenience them.

Exactly right. Caring is super easy when it doesn't cost anything. I like to think that it wasn't always like this. I want to believe hundreds of years ago family meant something so much more.

 

[Ego Sum Medusa]

Family is just bunch of random people you're connected with only by blood.

I am of the opinion that a person can, in fact, choose their family. I did. You can't help who you were borne to or raised by, but you can choose who you spend your life with, who you think of and call, "family."