feeling guilty

[luci4]

How can I overcome the fact that my death would probably destroy my family?

 

[Chiisai]

Trust in them. Leave a letter of assurance to somehow ease their pain, spend quality time with them, etc.

 

[thedaywillcome]

You are gone so what?

 

[Shu]

You are gone so what?

Maybe because some people want to make it at least painful as they can for their family?

You are gone so what?

Maybe because some people want to make it at least painful as they can for their family

 

[befree]

You wont destroy your family. You are just leaving them. It´s your life, your suffering, your free decision.

 

[Catloaf]

Would like an answer to this too, please. But there isn't one. A part of them also dies with us, so I can't really see a way around it.
Leaving a note explaining our reasons is the main thing we can do. To at least take solace in the fact that we've tried our best to make the process of grief less painful for our loved ones.

 

[luci4]

Trust in them. Leave a letter of assurance to somehow ease their pain, spend quality time with them, etc.

Thank u so much

Maybe because some people want to make it at least painful as they can for their family?

Maybe because some people want to make it at least painful as they can for their family

exactly I just want them to live their best life even without me

You are gone so what?

I mean Im feeling guilty now obviously

You wont destroy your family. You are just leaving them. It´s your life, your suffering, your free decision.

Hope they can undestand it too

Would like an answer to this too, please. But there isn't one. A part of them also dies with us, so I can't really see a way around it.
Leaving a note explaining our reasons is the main thing we can do. To at least take solace in the fact that we've tried our best to make the process of grief less painful for our loved ones.

Thank u no one ever told me this

 

[asdfandqwerty]

I agree with what catloaf and chisaii have said.

 

[FuneralCry]

The way I see it, there is not much that you can do, as loss and grief are an inevitable part of life. We will all die and lose everything someday. As others have said, I would write a note to give those left behind some closure and will mean that they are not left with unanswered questions. I wish you the best in whatever you decide to do and I'm sorry for all the suffering that has brought you to this point.

 

[okaoki]

spend time with them , write letters , make videos stating this is the only way , tried everything and anything.
ask them to respect your decision , ask them to move on even its hard.

 

[karasu]

This is something I'm struggling to come to terms with too and the only thing that's really delaying my decision of when to ctb.

 

[DPJ187]

Destroying only comes from lack of understanding, just make sure you leave a clear note on why you decided your course of action. It also helps ones self fully understand their own motivations behind these feeling too. There is always the chance during writing you decide getting help is a better option. Remember this though the people who love you are the ones that it will hurt the most and if you have people like that in your life then you haven't lost all hope just yet. Advice from me, het some smoke and relax for a day or two, I find it helps me slow down my thinking to more manageable levels. I hope you start getting some clarity soon