betterinthedark
Member
- Jan 6, 2026
- 27
I have been staying with my boyfriend for months due to an extreme amount of mold being in my room at home that was making me extremely sick. My parents have not fixed the issue whatsoever while I've been gone. They used to ask me to come back frequently but I had been getting comfortable not living with anxiety 24/7, there is always fighting at home, but recently my parents have not contacted me and I stopped by and my dad gave me the silent treatment. Me and my boyfriend have decided on fully living together now and I tried to talk to my mom about it, she responded with "you should've moved out a while ago" and that she's going to rent out my room and that I need to clear it. I don't understand the change. I do so much for them even when I've been staying with my boyfriend, I pay for their rent and groceries, I used three weeks of my paychecks to euthanize our dog when it was his time and told them they won't have to pay me back, I've payed to fix my moms car among other things. I've been crying all morning. Not an ounce of support. They're going to put a stranger in the room I grew up in and forget about me. Our relationship has always been Rocky but before the mold situation we were all doing well. I'm scared I'll never celebrate a holiday with them again or even get along with them anymore. I miss my mom so much I missed when my parents loved me unconditionally. I hate being an adult.
