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nameeater

nameeater

the one with many regrets
Nov 21, 2021
105
i heard the police outside saying they'd "come back later because it's a mental thing" (i was too scared to answer the door). i haven't done anything that could warrant a regular welfare check.

i'm worried because when they come back i likely won't be home alone, what do i do if it is a welfare check? do i just lie and say i disposed of it?
 
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RinneOfAragon

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Jan 2, 2025
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I'm a bit confused. Are you under the mental health team already? Or you ordered SN and somehow the authorities were alerted? I personally would lie if it was me but I'm not you. It's totally your call. I'm sorry this is causing you anxiety though!
 
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needthebus

needthebus

Voted SaSu™ Member Most Likely to Succeed
Apr 29, 2024
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it may not be from sn, someone else could have asked them to do a welfare check

if police are there, if you talk to them, they either kidnap you and take you to a locked facility or determine you are okay. often, they take you in.

however, in order to do a welfare check, they have to interact with you. they can't determine you must be locked up unless they speak with you. in most countries, you don't have to answer the door or talk with them

be aware that in some countries, doing certain things can allow them to break in.

So if you are talking, watching TV, respond initially, and then when they are there you wont say anything, they may be able to break in.

If they don't know if you are there, they'll have a hard time justifying breaking in and wouldn't want to tip you off.

SN has non-suicide uses.

They also may still be outside the door. Don't leave yet. They sometimes say that loudly to trick people.

This happened to me once. I put my headphones on, watched a three hour movie, and then left. They may come back, so I would be careful with entering and leaving for a while, try to be fast, try to disguise yourself somewhat. Don't take ID with you, be ready to claim to be someone else and without iD if needed.

They usually will give up, and often quickly. But don't go outside for a few hours, possibly even a day if you can. They may be eaiting off to the side. Be careful. Please update us.


Let us know if something is going on.
 
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nameeater

nameeater

the one with many regrets
Nov 21, 2021
105
I'm a bit confused. Are you under the mental health team already? Or you ordered SN and somehow the authorities were alerted? I personally would lie if it was me but I'm not you. It's totally your call. I'm sorry this is causing you anxiety though!
i'm under cmht already yeah i think me ordering sn might be the reason bcause i haven't suggested to cmht that i want to kill myself or anything i'm just panicking waiting for them to come back lol
 
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APeacefulPlace

APeacefulPlace

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Dec 2, 2024
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I don't have experiences with welfare checks from where I live, however I heard many stories in which people who lived in the UK got welfare checks. My suggestion is ( take this with a grain of salt ), since possession of sodium nitrite is not illegal in the UK, say you're using it as a meat preservative for sausages or even demand a warrant otherwise they have no business being in front of your home.

( P.S. LEs can come in without a warrant, statement withdrawn, I'm unsure myself, anybody who has experience, please kindly weigh in your thoughts. )
 
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needthebus

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Apr 29, 2024
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what is cmht? can they and do they view your bank account?
 
needthebus

needthebus

Voted SaSu™ Member Most Likely to Succeed
Apr 29, 2024
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do you know anyone who could possibly have requested a welfare check? do you seem sad? did you research suicide without a VPN or tor linking things to a home IP address?

well good luck and keep us posted
 
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nameeater

nameeater

the one with many regrets
Nov 21, 2021
105
it's possible someone did because i've had them before, but i honestly don't know why they would. i haven't done anything so extreme that would warrant a welfare check i doubt they would for just googling suicide everyone does that

i will update if/when they come back
 
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dune7263

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Jan 26, 2025
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it's possible someone did because i've had them before, but i honestly don't know why they would. i haven't done anything so extreme that would warrant a welfare check i doubt they would for just googling suicide everyone does that

i will update if/when they come back
hey do you have any updates? stuff like this is putting me off from ordering sn

do you order from dmc?
 

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