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Parnate

Experienced
Dec 16, 2021
292
I want to be reborn as someone better , with a better mind, body, family and life.
I daydream most of my waking time about being someone else that I can never be ?
What are your thoughts? Do you want to be reborn?
 
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ElTopo

ElTopo

Don't listen to me, I am drunk
Mar 30, 2025
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Maybe, I have belief in something similar but maybe we are forced into the experiences we live into because we need even the terribly painful ones.
To discard a life for a better one would be doing an injustice to its sacrality.

That said having a choice to die with dignity and to avoid pointless suffering is far more just than to live merely because it's wrong to commit suicide.

If ever reincarnate I want to be Dave Grohl.
 
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derpyderpins

derpyderpins

A new mentality, closer to the heart
Sep 19, 2023
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All theories about reincarnation rely on memories being lost so it can remain unprovable rather than fully debunked. (Minus reports of people totally remembering their past lives just nothing actually useful that are definitely scientifically reliable and absolutely not clickbait.)

If it's just a reset of this existence, I'll pass. If I could go back with the headstart of the lessons I've learned, then maybe.
 
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Carrot

Carrot

Experienced
Feb 25, 2025
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I want to be reborn as someone better , with a better mind, body, family and life.
I daydream most of my waking time about being someone else that I can never be ?
What are your thoughts? Do you want to be reborn?

This reminds me of the hedonic treadmill.

Let's assume you are reborn as somebody "better". Then you die again, being that "better" person. What happens next? Do you reincarnate again? Or does it stop there Do you want to reborn as somebody even better? Could this continue infinitely? Would you be reborn on Earth? As somebody new, or could it be in another time of history? What is humans or all life dies out? Is there infinite timelines generates so that isn't ever an issue?

I daydream too. Putting in effort for a chance of something happening isn't worth it.

I'd never want to be reborn, I'd rather just stop existing. I'd rather avoid all the suffering once and for all.

All theories about reincarnation rely on memories being lost so it can remain unprovable rather than fully debunked. (Minus reports of people totally remembering their past lives just nothing actually useful that are definitely scientifically reliable and absolutely not clickbait.)

If it's just a reset of this existence, I'll pass. If I could go back with the headstart of the lessons I've learned, then maybe.
I've seen an interesting one on this forum. Maybe we are on "Earth 1". Maybe there is reincarnation, but this is the "first phase", "first planet", "first version". Then after death something happens and we remember everything. Since this is the first stage, we don't remember anything yet.
 
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VoidButterfly

VoidButterfly

Flitterby
May 17, 2025
95
I truly hope this is the only time I have to experience this world. Fortunately I don't believe in reincarnation but I also really don't want it.
 
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FuneralCry

FuneralCry

Just wanting some peace
Sep 24, 2020
43,491
I don't rather all I want is to not exist, I just want to permanently cease existing and never suffer in this torturous existence ever again, I'd just always prefer to not exist and as long as I exist I'll only wish for an eternal dreamless sleep free from all cruelty and suffering where this deeply undesirable existence I always saw as a mistake is finally all gone and forgotten. I just want to never exist ever again, I just wish to be unconscious for all eternity with no more pain and no more suffering, existence to me is just the most torturous, dreadful abomination that just causes harm and suffering and I'd just never wish for any of this.
 
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