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- Dec 1, 2025
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I'm trying to think of all I can prepare to not burden other people if or when I finally get the guts to ctb, I'm normally pretty organised but just wondered if there's anything glaringly obvious missing. I don't have a huge social circle but I have a couple of friends, a job, my dad, etc.
I've honestly just always had a huge complex about being a burden so I'm trying to make as little nuisance as possible. Just wondered if anyone else feels the same with all the admin this'll involve or if there's anything huge that slipped my mind
- Written out all of my accounts (that I can think of) and their passwords - hard copy and in a Google Drive
- Written out all my device PINs
- Written out important contact details (family, doctor, friends)
- Closed down some bank accounts so everything is just in a current account and a savings account
- Made sure my ID is up to date
- Printed out all my important contracts - housing, job, etc
- Written out a brief apology - hard copy and in a Google Drive
- Backed up all of my photos onto a shared Google Drive for people to access
- Written a last will and advance decision/DNR - need to get them witnessed though
I've honestly just always had a huge complex about being a burden so I'm trying to make as little nuisance as possible. Just wondered if anyone else feels the same with all the admin this'll involve or if there's anything huge that slipped my mind