Venting Balding and being ugly

[Deathforliberation]

I'm feeling ugly already and now there really is no denying that I started losing hair as a still pretty young guy. I'm so insecure and I don't know how I'm supposed to handle that. It feels so humiliating. I've never had a girlfriend and I think that's never going to change now. Even walking around in public is going to feel humiliating in the future.

 

[TimetoGo!]

I'm feeling ugly already and now there really is no denying that I started losing hair as a still pretty young guy. I'm so insecure and I don't know how I'm supposed to handle that. It feels so humiliating. I've never had a girlfriend and I think that's never going to change now. Even walking around in public is going to feel humiliating in the future.

many young guys are losing their hair earlier nowadays, due to stress and processed foods.

If you had a job there is always a transplant, roughly $5000 or £6000

chin up bro

 

[ScarletTanager]

Lots of ladies like the bald looks. Someone may find it attractive. Go to gym, workout and try not to focus on ONE physical feature. Maybe join a hobby club and find people with similar interests? Or speed dating sessions? It sounds cheesy but it might work wonders. There is always Rogain and clinical options. The Rock is famous muscular and bald and so many successful people have scant hairs or are receding a hairlines. Other people probably don't base their liking someone on their physical appearance, especially one feature even if quite apparent, as you believe they do!!! Good luck

 

[webb&flow]

i promise you that love is still possible <3

there are sincere amounts of women whose love goes beyond mere hair style. in fact, attraction is influenced not merely by looks, but also behavior, shared interests, shared values, as well as relationship dynamics too.

and there are also women who will find beauty in all different kinds of styles upon heads; hair, bald, in fact there are women who find bald heads attractive too. what's not to say that in the eyes of a different person, in the eyes of a woman, there is beauty currently within you that you may not currently see? <3

and if hair loss is a concern, maybe a better short-term solution could be trying on a hat, cap, or any kind of such accessory that you feel comfortable with.

there are solutions outside of loneliness and thousand-dollar hair transplants <3

btw, social struggles in general are likely a greater factor in struggles to enter romantic relationships. attractiveness is but one variable in a sea of fundamental variables that influence how people interact. maybe you could try hanging around a coffee shop, bar, bookstore, or any such place, to find friends in general—whose company helps to make life even a touch easier, who can provide comforting conversation and interesting discussion to feed and grow your own soul as well. The desire for a romantic relationship may be the brain trying to seek love in general. The kind of love experienced in a romantic relationship shares a lot in common with those experienced in friendships too. I encourage you to explore all kinds of human connection there are <3, with people of all kinds. This helps not only in the short term with loneliness but in the long term with helping to understand people better and grow your familiarity both with the world and what you truly seek in life too . There is more than what meets the eye :).

 

[Hvergelmir]

I'm so insecure and I don't know how I'm supposed to handle that.

My advice would be to simply shave it or trim it very short. It's fairly common, also for people without baldness.

 

[Deathforliberation]

i promise you that love is still possible <3

there are sincere amounts of women whose love goes beyond mere hair style. in fact, attraction is influenced not merely by looks, but also behavior, shared interests, shared values, as well as relationship dynamics too.

and there are also women who will find beauty in all different kinds of styles upon heads; hair, bald, in fact there are women who find bald heads attractive too. what's not to say that in the eyes of a different person, in the eyes of a woman, there is beauty currently within you that you may not currently see? <3

and if hair loss is a concern, maybe a better short-term solution could be trying on a hat, cap, or any kind of such accessory that you feel comfortable with.

there are solutions outside of loneliness and thousand-dollar hair transplants <3

btw, social struggles in general are likely a greater factor in struggles to enter romantic relationships. attractiveness is but one variable in a sea of fundamental variables that influence how people interact. maybe you could try hanging around a coffee shop, bar, bookstore, or any such place, to find friends in general—whose company helps to make life even a touch easier, who can provide comforting conversation and interesting discussion to feed and grow your own soul as well. The desire for a romantic relationship may be the brain trying to seek love in general. The kind of love experienced in a romantic relationship shares a lot in common with those experienced in friendships too. I encourage you to explore all kinds of human connection there are <3, with people of all kinds. This helps not only in the short term with loneliness but in the long term with helping to understand people better and grow your familiarity both with the world and what you truly seek in life too . There is more than what meets the eye :).

That was one of the nicest and most compassionate texts anyone has ever written to me. You are a very kind soul

Lots of ladies like the bald looks. Someone may find it attractive. Go to gym, workout and try not to focus on ONE physical feature. Maybe join a hobby club and find people with similar interests? Or speed dating sessions? It sounds cheesy but it might work wonders. There is always Rogain and clinical options. The Rock is famous muscular and bald and so many successful people have scant hairs or are receding a hairlines. Other people probably don't base their liking someone on their physical appearance, especially one feature even if quite apparent, as you believe they do!!! Good luck

That's very kind of you