Badminton.

[Parnate]

i am a effeminate, closeted gay man. I went to play badminton with my colleagues . I think I play well as someone who hasn't had much experience. But my colleagues say show some aggression, don't play like girls. Why do you swing your hands like girls. For most of my school I was constantly bullied by others for being girly . I had forgotten that but this is bringing all those painful memories back. I hate myself.

 

[unluckysadness]

That's why I have social phobia. Being judged all the time. Isolation is not the solution, but I was constantly bullied too (at school, at work, in the streets sometimes). Since I started to write my biography for VAD in Switzerland, painful memories are back too. It really sucks. I hope you'll find relief.

 

[LastNite]

That's why I have social phobia. Being judged all the time. Isolation is not the solution, but I was constantly bullied too (at school, at work, in the streets sometimes). Since I started to write my biography for VAD in Switzerland, painful memories are back too. It really sucks. I hope you'll find relief.

Same, sports sucked so much for me. I am fit, but I just suck at it. When I was in school, the other kids will never pick me until I was the last option. I never spoke maybe that's apart of it and maybe because I just sucked. My favorite sport was volleyball, it's much easier than the rest of the sports. I've played American Football, It was not easy or fun. Idk how the other kids took it seriously even tho there was nothing being given if you won. They would push each other into the mud and it was raining most of the time, there was no way to clean yourself or change clothes because u had only a few minutes to pack up and go to the next class. Fucking hated it but I had to play it or I'd get written up.

 

[HNR_]

Don't know how helpful that is but
Do know that, despite all what others perceive as flaws or a reason for mockery, a bunch of others who would be into you would actually find quite charming

I haven't been bullied due to anything related to my body or even my behavior despite how closed off I was in secondary and HS but I did get quite a few compliments about my body despite looking really ordinary
Really made me question a lot of things about how I perceive myself

 

[imagonner]

i am a effeminate, closeted gay man. I went to play badminton with my colleagues . I think I play well as someone who hasn't had much experience. But my colleagues say show some aggression, don't play like girls. Why do you swing your hands like girls. For most of my school I was constantly bullied by others for being girly . I had forgotten that but this is bringing all those painful memories back. I hate myself.

im a female and i played football when i was younger. i can tell you that a kick from one of those "girls", as your colleagues like to say, would have them crying for their mammas. stay away from those people, they re toxic assholes and a waste of space. there is nothing wrong with you.