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LJ85

Future Airdancer
May 20, 2024
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I posted in the Partners thread as well. 39/m from Southern California. Looking to get to know someone before making a ctb plan. Message me if interested.
 
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game

Member
May 7, 2024
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How do people do this CTB Partner thingy? Like how? What do I do if I'm someone's partner? I'm confused
 
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dolemitedrums

Arcanist
Jun 12, 2024
449
How do people do this CTB Partner thingy? Like how? What do I do if I'm someone's partner? I'm confused

I think you're supposed to catch the bus together.
 
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lw1235

Member
Jul 7, 2024
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I posted in the Partners thread as well. 30/f from Seattle
 
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Caliguy

Member
Apr 7, 2024
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living in SD also looking to CTB
 
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Not A Fan

don't avoid the void
Jun 22, 2024
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How do people do this CTB Partner thingy? Like how? What do I do if I'm someone's partner? I'm confused
In some cases, the partnerships are long-distance so they would probably do things like encourage each other, assist with finding supplies, and synchronizing their scheduled moments of departure. Perhaps providing editorial guidance for each other's suicide notes. Or some people simply don't like the idea of dying alone.

I suppose a local, live-and-in-person variation of the arrangement would be similar, with the added feature of planning to CTB together in the same CO-filled tent, for example. Might present some opportunities to save money by splitting the cost of certain materials.

My CTB journey is just such an intensely personal thing, such that that thought of involving another person just doesn't sit right with me. From my perspective I would rather keep things as simple as possible, and be 100% in control of the process. I want to be able to reschedule things as needed, without worrying about derailing someone else's important plans.

However for other it may be the only way they gain enough confidence to achieve their CTB dreams. Basically everyone gets to figure out what works for them, there is definitely no one-size-fits-all. I'm not even totally against the idea for myself; it just seems highly unlikely that I'll encounter another individual whose logistical, philosophical and aesthetic concerns overlap sufficiently with mine to warrant such a close collaboration.

But the thing is.. you just never know.
 
WallowingWillow

WallowingWillow

In need of an eternal hiatus from life.
Apr 10, 2024
36
I posted in the Partners thread as well. 39/m from Southern California. Looking to get to know someone before making a ctb plan. Message me if interested.
Have you found a partner yet? I'm in CA and looking for a partner as well. 35/F
 
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Aprilfarewell4

Elementalist
Apr 9, 2024
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I'm in MT, using SN if anyone wants partner in that area. I have other methods available, but have settled on SN. thank you.
 
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Lookingtoflyfree

Specialist
Jan 11, 2024
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Have you found a partner yet? I'm in CA and looking for a partner as well. 35/F
I wish I was in CA... trying to move there. Heartened that there are more people out there thinking similarly. I hate where I am and am desperate to leave
 
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BlackCatCrossing

Member
Aug 27, 2024
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I posted in the Partners thread as well. 39/m from Southern California. Looking to get to know someone before making a ctb plan. Message me if interested.
I can't tell when you posted this but it's September of '24 now and I'm interested. Female in Southern California. DMs are open. : )
I posted in the Partners thread as well. 39/m from Southern California. Looking to get to know someone before making a ctb plan. Message me if interested.
I'm 39 F and in Southern California as well. It won't let me DM you. I'm interested in going out in nature with a pistol, I can hold a peaceful space.
 
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Caliguy

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Apr 7, 2024
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I can't tell when you posted this but it's September of '24 now and I'm interested. Female in Southern California. DMs are open. : )

I'm 39 F and in Southern California as well. It won't let me DM you. I'm interested in going out in nature with a pistol, I can hold a
 
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annointed_towers

Cursed by God
Dec 9, 2022
320
I can't tell when you posted this but it's September of '24 now and I'm interested. Female in Southern California. DMs are open. : )

I'm 39 F and in Southern California as well. It won't let me DM you. I'm interested in going out in nature with a pistol, I can hold a peaceful space.
I'm 35f and in central California. Looking to go out with someone with a gun. I can't get one for 3 more years because I've been hospitalized
 
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Lulu Sun

Member
Sep 5, 2024
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我不知道你什么时候发布了这篇文章,但现在是 24 年 9 月,我很感兴趣。南加州的女性。DM 已开放。: )

我也是南加州,体温 39 华氏度。它不允许我给你发私信。我有兴趣带着手枪去大自然,我可以保持一个安静的空间
From SoCal as well, 30 female, can I join you guys please
 
BlackCatCrossing

BlackCatCrossing

Member
Aug 27, 2024
40
I posted in the Partners thread as well. 39/m from Southern California. Looking to get to know someone before making a ctb plan. Message me if interested.
Message sent
 
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hell toupee

Member
Sep 9, 2024
35
living in SD also looking to CTB
I live in San Diego as well and looking for the same. I'm new here and can't figure out how to PM someone using a cellphone, or maybe I don't have permissions yet?

For my story, look for a thread about heartbreak (in the title if post) I registered to reply to th TS. Or maybe you can search for my one post. About to do it now so give me an hour. Or PM me if you can. I don't want to do this alone. I'm 52yo male, look about 40, used to surf and play drums. Get in touch or check out my post in a bit.
 
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Caliguy

Member
Apr 7, 2024
31
I live in San Diego as well and looking for the same. I'm new here and can't figure out how to PM someone using a cellphone, or maybe I don't have permissions yet?

For my story, look for a thread about heartbreak (in the title if post) I registered to reply to th TS. Or maybe you can search for my one post. About to do it now so give me an hour. Or PM me if you can. I don't want to do this alone. I'm 52yo male, look about 40, used to surf and play drums. Get in touch or check out my post in a bit.
Hey just PM you
 
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hell toupee

Member
Sep 9, 2024
35
Hey just PM you
Sorry I'm new here. Not sure if I have access to PM, either that or I can't find where I can see a PM. I assume it would be in the menu where I can see notifications and stuff? Can you help a brother out.

Note I did gain access to being able to search, which I didn't originally have. I thought PMs would come with it but maybe not.
 
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bqueenorange1

Member
Jun 13, 2025
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I can't tell when you posted this but it's September of '24 now and I'm interested. Female in Southern California. DMs are open. : )

I'm 39 F and in Southern California as well. It won't let me DM you. I'm interested in going out in nature with a pistol, I can hold a peaceful space.
Still looking?
 

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