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Proxycake

Proxycake

Matrimony
Feb 20, 2023
85
I do not have a single acquaintance or friend to my name, I engage in so little social interaction that it is soul-crumbling. Loneliness is hallowing. I just want to know if other people have the same problem.
 
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ayanitoolz

Member
Jun 21, 2025
15
yeah, i have no one i talk to besides my family and coworkers. loneliness is really hard to deal with, especially when it's so easy for everyone else to make friends
 
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locked*n*loaded

locked*n*loaded

Archangel
Apr 15, 2022
8,995
1000001809 None here. No family left, either.
 
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ThatRussianDude

ThatRussianDude

**** yeah, give it to me this is Heaven.
Dec 16, 2024
94
Hey hey. Welcome to the club. I alienated everyone yeah but I guess thats just my nature.
 
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tulero

Member
Mar 20, 2025
80
1 friend from university, but I talk with him maybe once a year

so its like having 0
 
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thelastmessiah

thelastmessiah

nihil nihil nihil, this swansong towards nothing
Jun 15, 2025
18
I have none, but I have my aging parents for now at least.
 
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Radiate_Ruby

Member
Oct 28, 2024
22
The last friend I had just suddenly stopped talking to me. Found a Subreddit to make online friends and talked to 4/5 people, but without success. I think of going to university to maybe make friends, but I doubt it would work.​
 
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wham311

Enlightened
Mar 1, 2025
1,048
My homeless friend who is worried about me stopped responding bc im disturbing.

Zero.

My family wants to talk to me but I have nothing to say to them other than please help me get out of this place.
 
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SailorBlue

SailorBlue

Anxious mess
Jun 21, 2025
44
I dont have friends anymore. I isolate myself too much with my depression, I dont want to make others sad.
 
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darksouls

darksouls

Elementalist
May 10, 2025
830
I never had human friends
my beloved pets were the only friends I ever had
they all left me
I miss them
 
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tulero

Member
Mar 20, 2025
80
I think of going to university to maybe make friends, but I doubt it would work.​
for me it worked up to some point, but got to say i had luck that the few friend i made all of them were at same pace, we coincide in the same classes

They were my 5 best years

now I have contact only with one of them, but we dont talk so much so...
 
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Radiate_Ruby

Member
Oct 28, 2024
22
for me it worked up to some point, but got to say i had luck that the few friend i made all of them were at same pace, we coincide in the same classes

They were my 5 best years

now I have contact only with one of them, but we dont talk so much so...
My problem is that I've got to change a lot of things in my life to be able to go to university, and I fear I won't
 
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Hollowman

Empty
Dec 14, 2021
1,821
My ex best friend dissapeared on me after a 15 year friendship. Haven't had a friend like that since and I knew I'd never have another one.
 
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Alexandra0

Alexandra0

Don't Fear the Reaper
Sep 30, 2023
471
My only friends are my 2 flowers, I take care of them. And I want them to continue to live long after my death
 
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frayed

Member
Jun 6, 2025
63
Only got my mother. She's very irascible
 
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Proxycake

Proxycake

Matrimony
Feb 20, 2023
85
My only friends are my 2 flowers, I take care of them. And I want them to continue to live long after my death
This is beautiful and I feel the same way towards my flowers and cacti. :heart:
yeah, i have no one i talk to besides my family and coworkers. loneliness is really hard to deal with, especially when it's so easy for everyone else to make friends
Yes, I see absolutely everyone talking about their 50 friends and the parties they have, the love they feel ... it just does not come for me. I'm sorry you are lonely too, it truly is just awful.
 
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Haibane-renmei-reki

Haibane-renmei-reki

Student
Jan 23, 2020
178
I do not have a single acquaintance or friend to my name, I engage in so little social interaction that it is soul-crumbling. Loneliness is hallowing. I just want to know if other people have the same problem.
me, i can't even have a short talk with my own father, let alone making friends I.R.L
 
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not-2-b-the-answer

not-2-b-the-answer

Archangel
Mar 23, 2018
10,570
Other than family and online friends I don't think I would be missed for months if I were to vanish.
 
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just_so_done

Experienced
Apr 16, 2023
259
I do a phenomenal job of pushing everyone away. The ones that try and stay eventually see the real me and I'm too much for them. Guess it's better not to have people close to me, all I ever do is hurt them and make things worse. I'm meant to be alone with the darkness.
 
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BlueLock

BlueLock

Member
Nov 8, 2024
62
Yep. Well technically I have my brother who I'm good friends with but I am quite lonely. If it makes you feel better there have been studies on loneliness and it's much more common than people like to think. Across all ages (and most depressingly, in a lot of young people) people are lonely. We aren't even alone in being lonely.
 
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Lost21

Student
Sep 24, 2018
188
Never had a friend in my life
 
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starboy2k

starboy2k

the only thing I can do right….is be a burden
May 21, 2025
133
no friends here and knowing that I want to CTB eventually, there's no point in having any either.
 
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amerie

amerie

style="color: rgb(255, 0, 208);" dirty water in my cup ⋆˚꩜。.° ༘🎧⋆🖇₊˚ෆ
Oct 6, 2024
284
My problem is I'm good at making friends (that is if people even want to talk to me in the first place) but I suck at keeping them because my expectations are too high (I'm that one friend who's too "woke") or they stop finding me funny or interesting after a while and I get ghosted.

Maybe this is just a normal part of growing up, but I'm so envious of people who have the friends for years and live without the crippling fear of people getting tired of them when they realize that they're not funny and chill but actually a loser femcel who's only funny in the moment (barely.)
 
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Pluto

Pluto

Cat Extremist
Dec 27, 2020
5,245
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LetMeOut67

LetMeOut67

Experienced
May 7, 2025
227
Yes pretty much
I had friends but now I don't want any and they've gone down a different road
 
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cemeteryismyhome

cemeteryismyhome

Warlock
Mar 15, 2025
718
Zero friends here. A long time ago it used to hurt. Now I prefer it that way.
 
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SchizoGymnast

SchizoGymnast

Mage
May 28, 2024
552
That's a hard question for me to answer because I think I have a bunch of friends, but I feel like every time I'm in need, they're nowhere to be found. So is that really a friend? Plus I have terrible rejection sensitivity, so I always think that people merely tolerate me, as opposed to loving me.
 
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kitkat9234

Experienced
Nov 27, 2024
280
I have no one. It's like I'm in solitary confinement but I am actually free. Often times I go crazy because it's just me myself and I.

Barely socialize with my coworkers when im actually in the office (work from home part time). I have nothing to say - no substance whatsoever. No one would even notice if I was gone.
 
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wham311

Enlightened
Mar 1, 2025
1,048
I have no one. It's like I'm in solitary confinement but I am actually free. Often times I go crazy because it's just me myself and I.

Barely socialize with my coworkers when im actually in the office (work from home part time). I have nothing to say - no substance whatsoever. No one would even notice if I was gone.
I relate
 
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