Am gay ,33. Yesterday late night I went to eat at this stall near my place. Over there I saw this beautiful guy. Now prior to this I have been limerent for many guys, but i didn't really have a sexual attraction to them. It was more emotional. But with this guy I had an emotional and physical attraction as well. We didn't talk but I was just staring at him occasionally. He is a mars dominated person. He has a good body, good looks, a deep voice and the way he talks is what I find attractive.
I don't want any reciprocation of feelings cause I know that will never happen, since he seems straight and also I am in India where such guys are very often homophobic if a gay man expresses interest in them. I am planning to go there again and find his name so I can check out his social media, or probably join his gym so we can be friends.
This has happened before as well. I have seen few guys and I have this immediate desire to be their wife or girlfriend or brother or best friend. But there was never a sexual component to it, which is there this time. I get limerent every few years about someone and then obsess for months, daydream and then eventually move on .
It feels like they can complete me , fill the ocean of emptiness that I carry inside.
Have you ever been in a relationship where you were in limerence? Can another person , a friend help you fill the inner void?
please share your experience and opinions
I don't want any reciprocation of feelings cause I know that will never happen, since he seems straight and also I am in India where such guys are very often homophobic if a gay man expresses interest in them. I am planning to go there again and find his name so I can check out his social media, or probably join his gym so we can be friends.
This has happened before as well. I have seen few guys and I have this immediate desire to be their wife or girlfriend or brother or best friend. But there was never a sexual component to it, which is there this time. I get limerent every few years about someone and then obsess for months, daydream and then eventually move on .
It feels like they can complete me , fill the ocean of emptiness that I carry inside.
Have you ever been in a relationship where you were in limerence? Can another person , a friend help you fill the inner void?
please share your experience and opinions
