Venting You have everything to be happy

[rs929]

That's what a friend just told me. Apparently it's all my fault to be depressed and lonely. I have to be "sincere" with my therapist and change things otherwise I'll be in the same place within 5 years.
"Life is hard not easy", she said.
Like she did, she accepted it was her and not the world against her. It seems I'm proud and I pick a "take it or leave it" stance.
"You don't have a discapacity and you're super smart".
Well it seems it's all my fault to be depressed

 

[WornOutLife]

Damn, I hate it when they say that.
I usually answer: "I have everything to be suicidal!"

 

[Amumu]

Your friend is actually a jerk tbh

 

[KleinerWolf]

Your friend is actually a jerk tbh

They just didn't know how to help.

our brains look at things differently,
both their and our brains are selective,
On top of that a brain could simply malfunction.

a millions way to not feel good all of a sudden,
Or for a long time if it was circumstantial/ relating to mental health.

 

[Sherri]

Yes, and still feel like something is missing.

 

[Tired_Tired]

If you believe in God, you can against it or accept. God create universal and human beings. God is the one should be blamed if you against it. Your friend are right on something. I don't believe there has God. I just want to know when I will relieve forever and I don't need to suffering all.

 

[Superdeterminist]

Damn, I hate it when they say that.
I usually answer: "I have everything to be suicidal!"

I wish I were fully equipped for suicide. A DIY N kit would be so convenient.

 

[KuriGohan&Kamehameha]

It's easy for people to say those things when they have never been in our position.

People say that bullshit to me too, about being super smart and a lot of my problems just being my perspective. Do they have chronic fatigue syndrome that's very disrupting neurologically? No. So how can they understand if someone is disabled or not if they never walked a mile, much less a centimeter, in our shoes.

I am sorry your friend had nothing helpful to say and just wanted to cast blame on you.

 

[Makko]

They don't have anything meaningful to say, but they also can't say nothing, so they can only throw out bloopers. It's not actual, seriously-meant advice or reflection. Just people "doing their part" for you.

 

[*Hope*]

Ignore them, they just don't understand because they haven't gone through the same pain.
It's moslty people who have amazing lives who tell others to "get used to it" or "life ain't easy".
It's like a millionaire telling a homeless person that life is beautiful.